Well its another Saturday night! and i guess another night in!!! Why is it, that a man can get away with walking into a pub or club on his own? But a women who walks into these venues are instantly labelled as Cheap, Desperate, and looking for a quick ****???? This is so unfair! Most of my friends are married or have partners and i have very few single friends to go out with, so what are my options here??? Stay in alone AGAIN!!! or risk being labelled???

dont stay in onm your own, go out any have a drink or even catch up on a movie. seriously why worry what other peoples perseptions will be.
I often go out on my own as all my friends are also single mothers.
speaking of which im off to bingo tonight on my own. ha ha i am 24 really i promise. Yeah i know a woman going to bigno on her own is not the same as going to a pub but hell give it a go you have nothing to loose, apart from missing the rubbish that is on telly tonight.

I quite often go out on my own.

I often find other girls coming up to me asking why, and do I want to join her and her friends & so on.

But sometimes I like going out alone, Just to think.

i always drift away from people on a mooch! best way to meet people i feel, especially when there will be new freshers around hehe

Sometimes u have a better chance of pulling or meeting new ppl if u are out alone. Some 'mates' u go out with tend to repell the opposite sex lol

I have been out alone on several occaisions. I have been approached by several men who, surprisingly never came across as being sleazy, but very gentlemanly and charming. . .


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I sometimes find myself in this position so one night I logged on to chat and asked did anyone wanna meet in town for a drink and within 2 hours I was in town and met my drinkin buddy.
We have met up a few times since and chat on msn but I didn't fancy him so we are just friends and I know I can call on him anytime I'm in need of a night out

I've been to the pub a few times on my own and actually found it ok.

The first couple of times I went to a fairly quiet'ish pub and took a book and enjoyed a few glasses of wine.

I wouldnt think twice about doing it now.

When were clubbing, we always just randomly go away on our own dancing lmao and then just meet back up! Good fun when you see some of the guys with their bear goggles on!

I'd feel a bit awkward in a pub by myself, unless there was some entertainment on. Stood there with a pint on my lonesome would be a little boring and if you did it every week people will start to label you “strange”.

You could of course go steam rolling into another group of pub folk looking for friends, but again they’d likely reject you because peeps tend to keep to there own in pubs.

Clubs are a different matter, as loads of people just wander off solo like bloodhounds following a scent!

So if I had to do it alone, I’d drink at home then go clubbing!