Well hopefully after so they're empty.....

erm did I just say that...

morillo I'm shocked....no I lied its what I;ve come to expect

depends whats empty!!!!!!!!!!!!

The space where my brain's suposed to be is empty.

Well thats what a real lady can cause TOTAL AMNESIA!!!!!!

On the subject of looking old I sold my soul to the devil my real name is Dorian Gray I keep the picture in the attic.

Age is just a number you are as young as you feel i'm 49 but i can take 12 years of for good behaviour!!!!!

On th subject of rude people, I had a guy message me and it wasnt an abusive or smutty one, so we exchanged a few more mails and then I added him to my msn. The first thing he did was send me a pic of his erect todger!!!!!!!!!! I declined the pic saying thanks but no thanks, to which he said it was only a bit of fun, now Im no prude and yes I like a flirt etc but I dont really want a guys todger as a first point of call. He then wanted to put his cam on and by now Im a little wary so I say no, I had my son home also. I told him this I then got questioned as to why I had my son home during the day, he is put of work, I then got told I should get him off his lazy arse etc and send him out!!!!!!!!! At this point Im gob-smacked, Ive never even had a proper conversation with this guy. I tried to say that there was more to it than that, to which he proceeded to tell me I was old, boring and made him depressed (and alot more besides). Now was there really any need for that abuse and why cant someone simply say thanks but no thanks and leave it there? All because I didnt want a pic of his erect todger nor did I wish to view him on cam!!!!!!!!!!

He must av been a right pratt! did he have a pic on his profile? but all in all theres bein sensible bout these things i dont have a web cam and wouldt send rude pics out until the stage had been reached where a subject of that nature was deemed to be agreeable!

Yep, he had a pic on profile, good job and education listed etc too, just goes to show that even the 'decent' messages can hide a perve.

Perhaps we should have a self destruct button for the pervs!!!!!

We should, another site I use allows you to tell them if anyone has upset/offended you and they get deleted

Sound thinking! but free sites will always attract the chancers and pervs!!!!! Toby and god are u reading these remarks? anyway we can get rid of the offensive peeps like u do with spammers?