Ok, so i admit i'm a proper nosey git, but i don't care really. However, this noseyness got me in a little trouble the other day..

I added someone on facebook and, as you do (or as i do anyway) proceeded to have a noggin at their pics and quite casually said the wrong thing. Namely.. why would you keep a pic of your ex on here as you can see in his face that he's blatantly not interested in you. Turns out it was her current fella and my comment went down like a lead balloon to both her and him (she deleted it pretty quick too)

Felt like a bit of a plonker, but it got me thinking... has anyone else ever done this ?

I've started doing a lot of research in to body language and facial expressions and it's done nowt but get me in trouble so far (by it, I of course mean my big gob!)

By the way, this isn't me asking / telling you to go look through your 'spoken for' mates photo's and see if one of them is blatantly not interested in the other (you can if you want to though)

Random topic, but.. well.
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haha! how funny that you just said that to the person lol!

atm i believe all the friends i have that are in r'ships are very happy as most are hitting 2/3 years (god knows how people even manage that at this age). and through facebook i do find it quite easy to sense when things aren't going great in a r'ship just beacaue of the way the news feed shows everything (especially when you know both halves of the couple.) and if i ever see any of them out and about (which isn't often as i hate socialising with couples and inviting them to anything, probably out of jealousy if i'm honest lol) my suspicions are usually confirmed aha! but i would never ever say something directly as i don't think its my place at all.

i did this course on body language and while i was at sixth form and continued reading into it here and there. so now i am a complete freak with it. and as im usually alone when im out shopping and stuff i have time to look and think about the body language of people/couples i pass. gets irritating sometimes! i even think about my own body language when i'm with somebody too because i'm overly conscious of how i am percieved by other people lol.

hmm, good topic.

one of the things my proper friends know, is i'm quite blunt. (well it would be deemed weird to keep a pic of you and your ex - wouldn't it? )

I haven't gotten too far into body language as in the way people stand etc, but facial expressions and 'looks' are very generic, which is awesome !! Have even considering buying books rather than just sitting in the library for hours reading !
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Very interesting! And haha

Reminds me of "Lie to me", a show I find myself unable to watch right now, because I keep on saying that I have to get a notebook and jot everything down when I start watching. Body language rules !

Lie to me is a bit shit actually Bliss. So blatantly obvious the stuff they're pointing out that my 5yr old lad could probably do it just as well as they do
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Fine. What have you been reading then? LOL

Truth is I barely get Lie to me. Haha, feel like I have to jot everything down in a notebook. Maybe I'm just not made for this.

I had this the other day on another site. The person - despite being 'single & looking' - had around 166 photos of mostly of her with other men (bad advert for fidelty/security/respect straight away). When I asked about them, she said one was her ex whom she was still in love with despite the break-up, and that any guy getting involved should accept that and that she was still heartbroken and still in love with him and always would be. My response was, that if she was still in that state it would be disrespectful for both her and/or any newcomer to get involved, and that if she wanted to drag her past around with her like a corpse on an old stretcher then that was up to her, but that she should not expect some nice new 'single & looking' happy guy to drag it around with her. I found the whole situation quite disgusting actually, but there are such emotional parasites still out there, and to use someone as a 'filler-in' and/or to 'help them over their ex' to me is as freaky as it is mentally frightening. I had a similar experience when watching Cronenberg's 'The Fly' recently...