It the biggest problem of these sites Sue, you cant always rely or trust most pics, profiles or personas. Although most seem to want to.

I have a few that I think I would be able to trust and rely on in real life. But its not that easy to really get to know people that lives some miles away. Especially if you dont meet that often. You just stay internet friends, which probably mean acquaintances.

Will be meeting an ex mate from another site next week at a wedding. Her and her mate played me a bit. I fell out with her.
Will be interesting