I've belated realised something I missed, so I'm just going to shut up now.

i wont be taking him back at all thanks for the support guys i am really low at the mo i cant tell on him as my brother knows him so i dont want my brother to hit him and then he gets in trouble too

he would only go overboard am kinda hopin tht losing a nice woman like myself might make him wake up n get help maybe he could learn something from what he has done?

Sorry to hear that....was the Police involved ??

louby, honey, it doesnt matter that this guy knows your brother (he is family and should stand by you) you must go to the police you need to report it get him arrested and get a restraining order slapped on him. I know you say that you hope losing a nice woman will make him face up to things but i can tell you that men like that never change. Also i presume that from you r post you have been checked over properly, if not you must get someone to take you to a&e. It is very important to do that if he has had his hands around your neck as he could have caused untold amounts of damage from that alone, not to mention all the other awful stuff.

Babe, i dont know what to say, its things like this that make me wish i could help, but if you find yourself with no one available to talk to about it then i am about most days and even if you just want to write stuff down to get it out and send it then u can.

I really hope that you as ok as you can be
Hannah xxx

If you ever get the chance slit his throat while he sleeps....

I tell every man I have ever gone outwith I would do that if hey hit me.

One did once and we both ended up the doctors.

I slapped a woman once. I didn't mean to, she was drunk and her nails were in my face, litterally. I was sweeping my arm in front of my self eyes shut in self defence! she copped a black eye for a week! we were together almost ten years without a repeat.

Blokes generally are not only heavier than their partners but pound for pound more muscular too.

so men should just not fkin hit women, those that do on a repeat basis I have found tend to be complete cowards among thier own love.

ooh i was tempted revenge in this case wouldnt b sweet i just want no more comebacks goin to the police could cause more hassle than its worth believe and i havent been to a n e but i think i should

i have a child with learning disabilitys and she is off school could go to clinic tmoro as she is away to a funclub

am really worried about what he might have done to my throat and nose too