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04.03.2009, 20:29 quote

misscorklegs

oakman wrote:
Thoughts are with DH in surgery today.


Just to let you know the surgery seemed to go ok, right amount of time, came around etc, but did not see a Dr after...as happens when they're busy. I've left him tucked up and uncomfortable in a short hospital bed, with Maltesers, Minstrels and cranberry juice!

And to those who want to know about 'Pebbles the dog', she is unable to type at the mo as away with her beau, but has settled in nicely having weed and crapped on the carpet!! Very Happy

 

04.03.2009, 20:33 quote

justmejim70

Give my best to Stu! ....and i know what you mean about the weed, ..every time i have that i crap on the carpet as well

 

05.03.2009, 20:21 quote

Cazzabee
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sianannagins112 wrote:
fair point but as RG said (i think lol it was something along these lines and i totally agree), it shouldn't take someone dying to make people go to screenings, they should be going anyway.


Simple answer here...they aren't though Sian thats the problem. I'm with Summer on my feelings here as I think i've tried to get across previously. Having been someone who avoided going for smears as long as possible, my recent experience and Jade's will ensure I don't do that anymore!!

Anyway.....hoping Stu is doing ok. Keep us updated misscorklegs

 

05.03.2009, 21:12 quote

misscorklegs

DH is home with me, not comfortable, but at least he's getting man size portions of food!!!

 

05.03.2009, 22:33 quote

sianannagins112

Cazzabee wrote:
sianannagins112 wrote:
fair point but as RG said (i think lol it was something along these lines and i totally agree), it shouldn't take someone dying to make people go to screenings, they should be going anyway.


Simple answer here...they aren't though Sian thats the problem. I'm with Summer on my feelings here as I think i've tried to get across previously. Having been someone who avoided going for smears as long as possible, my recent experience and Jade's will ensure I don't do that anymore!!

Anyway.....hoping Stu is doing ok. Keep us updated misscorklegs



I wasn't saying it was a total loss, I just think it's a bit crap that it takes someone dying to make people go. I do feel for Jade but shouldn't she be spending time with her boys instead of all these interviews, she's doing it so that she can give them a great life.. well you can't buy memories and that's what she should be creating with them right now Confused Great, they're going to be well kept for the rest of their childhood years but with less memories. Just irritates me.

The government have been TRYING to get women to go for cervical cancer checks for ages, do you guys not remember that advert with all the teenage girls in it? It was broadcast well before Jade got cancer and it was on every radio and tv station (although, may have just been Scotland?), I remember it well as they were calling it 'Cervyyyacal' not 'Cervical' and it was very irritating lol but got the message through. I'm not old enough to be called for one yet but I wouldn't put it off anyway (And my mother would go through me if I did lol), and I wouldn't have done even if Jade hadn't got this.


Edit : Have just had thought, so why were people ignoring it when the government was trying to get people to go, but suddenly Jade Goody gets it and everyone runs to the doctor. What were people waiting for before?!?!?!!?!?!??!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!

 

05.03.2009, 23:31 quote

sketchyrider
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i agree my mum died of cancer 2 weeks before i was 18 and i have to say it was a fight to get her into good care before she passed away.

 

06.03.2009, 07:39 quote

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sianannagins112 wrote:


Edit : Have just had thought, so why were people ignoring it when the government was trying to get people to go, but suddenly Jade Goody gets it and everyone runs to the doctor. What were people waiting for before?!?!?!!?!?!??!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!


Ah, it’s probably got a lot to do with the feeling of invincibility that many people have - “it’ll never happen to me” ..... sometimes until it is too late (or too late to make a difference).




Speaking for myself (as Darkhorse instead of Pebbles, who is still on holiday), a quick update – as Miss Cork Legs said, I had surgery on Wednesday, a massive blast of chemo yesterday, and am back home (well, at Miss Cork Leg’s house). Obviously I don’t feel very lively, but I consider myself quite fortunate when I consider the others who were on the ward with me. Admittedly, they were all many, many years older than me (if one can possibly imagine that ) and had far more advanced cancer problems than I have, so I shall count my blessings and get on with my life! And, of course, I have people around me who care about me!!

Sadly, the surgery to remove the cancer appears not to have been in the slightest related to the constant pain that I’ve been in for over 6 months, so I’m back at square one on that side of things, and my somewhat positive mood has taken a bit of a battering again, and I have some feeling of trepidation at what will be found when they eventually find the cause of the pain.

Anyway, like I said, there are lots of people worse off than me; I think I might try Sue’s Spoons

 

06.03.2009, 11:53 quote

rocketgirl

Hey Stu hope it all went well yesterday and the pain issue gets sorted pronto as well.
Have a good rest now, I know I am a long way away and dont actually know you apart from on here and all, but I sincerely mean this, if there is anything I can do to help dont hesitate to ask ok.

On topic, yeah I think you are right about people thinking they are invincible - humans are essentially lazy and blase about these things until a remindng nudge comes along like a celeb in the news, strange though poor patrick swayze's situation didnt have peeps here running to the doc with rib pain.
~i expect even your own current situation has made one or two readers on here think "ooooh that reminds me, I must do something about that nagging groin ache" or summat.
Anyways, get well soon dear! Very Happy

No disrespect meant to jady goody, but it seems to me to be the old princess diana syndrome - takes us away from the recession focus.

What I dont understand is how her hubby gets off lightly for being a rather horrid person, he goes to watch a chuffing footy match while his wife of one week is crying down the phone to her agent in the hospice saying "I'm scared of dying" WTF, shouldn't her hubby be by her side 24/7 with the kids?? HOW COULD HE GO TO A FOOTY MATCH WHILE HIS WIFE IS IN AGONY, SCARED AND DYING???
And I dont understand why the kids are being fobbed off with 'mummy's a bit poorly in a *normal* hospital" - sure they are very young, but they wont be thankful later when mummy suddenly vanishes - and in a few short years find out for themselves the real truth about what's going on.
I think its dreadful not being honest with those kids, and chuffing taking them to a footy match instead of being with mum, hell if I was dying I wouldnt care if it was my last breaths I would NEVER be too ill to see my kids.

 

06.03.2009, 15:51 quote

cmiso

I would think the hospital wouldn't want anyone there 24/7 with her. Sure they should know, if they are able to understand of course.

 

06.03.2009, 19:36 quote

rocketgirl

CMISO wrote:
I would think the hospital wouldn't want anyone there 24/7 with her. Sure they should know, if they are able to understand of course.


I have to disagree. In my own experience (and my sister is a nurse and a cousin is a hospital doctor and they've agreed with me) hospitals are usually grateful for a relative/friend to be by a dying person's bedside 24/7, it saves them having to constantly check on them and that person can do the running around for the poorly person.
When someone is that ill, official visiting hours are encouraged to be ignored. They have rooms with beds, shower kettle etc. especially for them.
I myself sat 24/7 for nearly a whole week in hospital with my mum-in-law last october.
Of course a small child only has the capabilities (staying power) to pop in and visit as opposed to 24/7 but it was the report that her hubby was at a footy match that boggled my mind.

 

06.03.2009, 20:46 quote

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rocketgirl wrote:
CMISO wrote:
I would think the hospital wouldn't want anyone there 24/7 with her. Sure they should know, if they are able to understand of course.


I have to disagree. In my own experience (and my sister is a nurse and a cousin is a hospital doctor and they've agreed with me) hospitals are usually grateful for a relative/friend to be by a dying person's bedside 24/7, it saves them having to constantly check on them and that person can do the running around for the poorly person.
When someone is that ill, official visiting hours are encouraged to be ignored. They have rooms with beds, shower kettle etc. especially for them.
I myself sat 24/7 for nearly a whole week in hospital with my mum-in-law last october.
Of course a small child only has the capabilities (staying power) to pop in and visit as opposed to 24/7 but it was the report that her hubby was at a footy match that boggled my mind.


He was probably asked to do it by Jade. Knowing that she doesnt want the kids knowing exactly how poorly she is (although in another report she has been reading them a book about a poorly badger that was recommended to her by some expert i think so the kids have some knowledge that mummy is ill) , she will want to retain some sense of normality for them and if thats the way she wants it then its her choice. Different people have different ways of dealing with things. We know Jack Tweed aint a saint but I would like to believe he is doing his best. Everyone and anyone can only GUESS whats going through their minds and what they have decided is the best way forward.

To answer Sian's post above...when do people EVER listen to what the government says??? Laughing As much as Jade can be irritating etc, she is someone thats always been in the news since BB and people can identify with. She's a sucessful businesswoman too (I love her perfume) and for someone that came from nothing she's done well.

Just as a side note, my diagnosis/treatment actually started before Jade was diagnosed as terminal. You would think I would be one person who would find smear tests really important since my mum had to have a hysterectomy at my age because of pre cancerous cells but I didnt. I was scared of getting it because of it being so uncomfortable but now I believe my health is so much more important. I've had enough health scares in the past 6 months so my now 6 monthly smear tests are ridgidly marked in the calender

 

06.03.2009, 22:45 quote

rocketgirl

Yes of course you are right Carrie.
I am just as guilty as the next person whilst struggling with my own losses and difficulties to not understand how someone else acts completely differently just because we don't walk in each other's shoes.
All I know about jade goody is what i've read in the papers as I dont have tv, sometimes its easy to forget they only report what sells papers.

 

06.03.2009, 23:26 quote

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I have tried to avoid this post but hey Im here now….

I have very little knowledge of Jade, Im not a BB fan and I don’t have time to read tabloids, suffice to say Im devastated for anyone who is diagnosed as she is, god bless her.

The man she has chosen as her husband would not appear to be the best person to look after the children.

I hope those kiddies eventually find happiness, you can never get over the loss of your mother, especially at such a young age. This is an awful situation, which unfortunately, occurs all to often.

My thoughts are with Jade, and the kiddies.
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07.03.2009, 16:12 quote

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Snap, I wrote a post on another dating site and was totally slated for daring to suggest Miss Goody should bow out from the glare of publicity now.Death should be a oprivate family affair, and I feel so sorry for her two young children.They have enough to contend with.

 

07.03.2009, 20:51 quote

rocketgirl

I just am bemused why poor wendy richards didnt get such a fan following or such media exposure regarding her cancer. Or patrick swayze and his cancer. Or michael j fox and his parkinsons disease. etc.etc.etc.
The general public never fail to bemuse me.
I guess it's down to who your publicist is, and who's flavor of the month.
What I find so very sad is give it 12 months (if poor jade is no longer with us then) just how many people will even recall who she was, her name, her children's names etc. The whole sad affair will sink into oblivion and be forgotten when new 'gossip' rears its ugly head.

 
 
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