Well, I don't understand 99% of women, but this is the latest one that I've been talking to a bit recently.....I'll give you the low down:

I first met her at a party a few months ago and never really spoke to her until more recently, I don't speak to her a lot but she only seems to talk to me when she either wants to meet up somewhere or wants a lift somewhere. For example, I've only seen her twice outside of Uni and both times were in the last 2 days.

Yesturday she asked me to see her, so we met up and chilled in my car for an hour or so (there was no real flirting and we didn't hug/kiss each other to say hello or goodbye). The same thing happened today, she asked to see me in 30minutes so I went off and did the same as last night, we chilled in my car with her doing no real flirting at all.

It's confusing me because I don't think she likes me due to her not flirting with me, but at the same time it's not as though she wants us to be good mates because she never makes a big effort to talk to me or to start conversation.

Anyone have any ideas on whats going on in her head? As I honestly have no idea at all.

She doesn't come across as the "shy" type (what I'm trying to say is - she's a bit of a slag).

It doesn't bother me if she's just bored because I'm not after a relationship and don't like her in that way, I'd just quite like to know what she wants!

Shy? Do you do all the talking? Silences can be ok if somebody feels comfortable in your company and not feel that they have to talk....... or is she just using you for a lift somewhere and then feels obliged not to jump out the car straight away..... dunno mate *!??!*?
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lol sittin in ur car for an hour? u 2 must be up to something! and what do u talk about?
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ur expectin her to flirt? y? so if anything (like in the case of her being stevie g's girl) u would say "but she came on to me first"? lol sometimes u've got to take the initiative man, why does she want to meet in ur car? y not ur house?
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francine needn some attention
wilma givn that thank u smooch
ha no im not pinchin lois' tig ol bitties
betty wonderin how the marry she ended up here

Who can say why? She may be just escaping something at home - anything from nagging or rows to violence or abuse.
She may have fallen in love with your car!
She may want you to get her a date with Stevie G, or beat up an ex-boyfriend.
She may just be taking advantage of your imagination and your knowledge of cagefighting.
But isn't there a possibility that she likes you, likes being with you, enjoys your company and you treat her the way she wants to be treated?
Can't you extend it a bit: do some other things together?
(No, not necessarily that! )
Go to a gig, or movie, or pub/meal, or cagefight, etc, etc?
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She obviously wants to spend time with you, maybe she's waiting for you to make a move on her.

Or maybe she's in love with your car.

That is one odd situation.
I think if I found myself in such circumstances I would suggest going out for a drink one evening... in a friendly way ... kind of
"hey look I'm going to this new bar this weekend, wanna come along ?" thus only asking her out as a mate.

Its always easier to tell people's feelings after a couple of drinks in a nice bar. A parked up car at the side of the road isn't the easiest place to let your feelings out for the first time lol

If she doesn't want to go for a drink then just ask her why she does want to meet up and tell her you like her (if you do).

I would say that she needs some kind of asylum, maybe avoiding something at home. Your car probably seems to be a safe place to her. And if she feels safe in your car and in your presence, then she definetely has some kind of symphaty for you.
Invite her to some other silent and peacefull place without massive crowds. Some cozy restaurant maybe? A walk in some beautifull place? Sitting by the lake/sea/river?
Personally I wouldn't start with the gig or pub, but surely I would try to get her out of that car to do something together, even without much talking on the occasion....

I've been told from a reliable sauce that her parents are splitting up so that's probably why she wants to get out of her house.

I've given her a couple of lifts to places recently but nothing sexual has happened.

She's rung me crying a few times in the last few days, does she not have mates to call when shes upset? She's only calling me because I have a car.

I'm mates with another girl who's boyfriend had the same thing, he'd get calls from the girl asking him to meet up with her (he too has a car, surprise surprise).

I don't pick up my phone when she calls me any more, I can't be f*cked with her ringing me every evening, she has mates for this sort of stuff, she's only calling me because I have a car.