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17.09.2006, 15:33 quote

saintsfan

I really like someone and they like me. I get really paranoid when we dont talk, I really dont know why though. I guess all the rejection and disappointment as sent me this way, any tips to stop me being paranoid?

 

17.09.2006, 15:35 quote

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sadly this is one topic that i find hard to address myself. i guess its all a matter of time and building your confidence. I have the very same problem... but i know someone has to give somewhere....
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17.09.2006, 15:40 quote

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saintsfan wrote:
I really like someone and they like me. I get really paranoid when we dont talk, I really dont know why though. I guess all the rejection and disappointment as sent me this way, any tips to stop me being paranoid?


yeah, stop smokin that special green tabacco lol Weedman

 

17.09.2006, 15:42 quote

saintsfan

I gave that up like 5 years ago.

 

17.09.2006, 15:45 quote

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lol only jokin, did ya? good work i wanna knock it on the head, anyway here i go off top again.

 

17.09.2006, 15:46 quote

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18.09.2006, 09:26 quote

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Yeah this is indeed a hard topic and even harder to advise on as it depends so much on you.

All I can say is relax and don't think too much. If you both like each other then you are almost there, what's to worry about? Just take each day as it comes and think positive at all times.

Good luck mate Smile
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18.09.2006, 10:08 quote

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saintsfan wrote:
I really like someone and they like me. I get really paranoid when we dont talk, I really dont know why though. I guess all the rejection and disappointment as sent me this way, any tips to stop me being paranoid?


You're not alone Saints. I know the feeling well. The only thing i can go on, is if she has told you straight that she fancies you, take it as said.

Just try to remember tho that when looking for that special someone on a dating site, there are so many to choose from, that it doesn't always lead somewhere.

Negative of me I know, but better to be somewhere in the middle (ie, my glass is never half empty or half full, it's just halfway) than either set yourself up for disappointment which will sometimes bring on the event, or get your hopes up so high to only be dashed again.

Just take it a day at a time and enjoy the moments as they happen Smile

 

18.09.2006, 16:04 quote

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redoctober wrote:

Just take it a day at a time and enjoy the moments as they happen Smile


but at the same time dont be dragging your heels. if you wanna tell her how your feeling and your comfortable doing that then do it, always be yourself mate and go with what you feel is right. you never know, she might be feeling paranoid as well when you dont talk!

 

18.09.2006, 17:40 quote

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saintsfan wrote:
I really like someone and they like me. I get really paranoid when we dont talk, I really dont know why though. I guess all the rejection and disappointment as sent me this way, any tips to stop me being paranoid?





Aye you would think that!! {only noising you up}

 

18.09.2006, 22:17 quote

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handymani wrote:
redoctober wrote:

Just take it a day at a time and enjoy the moments as they happen Smile


but at the same time dont be dragging your heels. if you wanna tell her how your feeling and your comfortable doing that then do it, always be yourself mate and go with what you feel is right. you never know, she might be feeling paranoid as well when you dont talk!


Exactly what I was wanting to say!!

Pol x

 

18.09.2006, 22:49 quote

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I am no gonnie get all philosophical on yir on but treat it all as a big laugh, a game, hook up with a good wingman, hit the toon, have a good laugh talking to women as people.

I'm sure the women here will acknowledge that none of them are perfect, so have fun with that, a good teasing on a person to person level can be a great laugh. And if you find yourself getting a slagging from a woman then your paying way too much respect, so turn it around the way you would do with any of yir auld mates and give as good as you get - but keep it fun.
Remember have fun with it.

 

19.09.2006, 06:33 quote

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Aye you would think that!! {only noising you up}





Eeerrrrrr what does noising you up mean? I know i am a blonde! But! Confused
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19.09.2006, 06:38 quote

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ladytracexx wrote:
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Aye you would think that!! {only noising you up}


Eeerrrrrr what does noising you up mean? I know i am a blonde! But! Confused


Nothing to do with hair colour Trace Very Happy It's Scottish and probably Glaswegian. Something along the lines of mucking about;winding you up I would imagine.

 

19.09.2006, 06:40 quote

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arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh right a bit like divvy me ansum in cornish then Wink

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