How do i uplaod pics??

make sure it is a good clear picture of yourself, no nudeness, or a picture of someone else. here is a link that will help to : http://www.flirtbox.co.uk/tutorial-manage-pictures.php

Also pictures take up to 24 hours to be approved.

I take it there are no ways to upload using your phone? I dont have pc access so that's my only option and im new so no pic up yet..

I imagine there will be, once the admin finishes the mobile app. But until then, nope.