Earlier i posted in wrong place.And there was a gentleman on here that told me wrong place,so here i am.Giving it another shot.How do you know when your true love has arrived.W ell got tell you this experience of mine i met him here on flirtbox,months ago,hhe lives in ther us same as me.But as of now he is in England his mom is sick in hospital.Well i get 6 red roses,and a bear all way from there.And he acts like he loves me ,so what do you think?I s he the real thing,my fairytale or should i do as i did made him tell me goodbye.And while i had thread up got 20,000 views a week im not out steal anyones spotlight.Not yet anyways.So if you are on and around what do you think did i do the right thing,or should i have gave him more me,than i already have.

it may just be my brain.... but i had a hard time trying to figure out what you were saying. your sentences just didn't make sense to me.

if you are asking if you should break up with him i'd say no.

if you already broke up with him because he had to go look after his sick mother in another country i'd say you might have made a mistake.

but i really don't know what you are asking.

sorry

So you met this guy on Flirtbox a while back, he lives in the US but had to come to England to visit his sick mother. Now you are wondering if this guy has made excuses or if his mother is genuinely sick?
Well the fact that he went through all the trouble of sending a bear and roses to the US for you shows that he misses you and is trying to show that he is still interested, if I were you I would only be worried if he just disappeared and didn't send anything!!!
He says he loves you? So he has called you from here, made an expensive call to the US just to say he loves you? Again, he is showing he is still interested.
If his mother is sick he will obviously have a lot on his mind so don't expect phone calls everyday till he goes back to you, give him time to do what he needs to do.

Just relax and stop worrying, if he didn't love you he would have just gone without any phone calls or teddy bears so don't go phoning him to tell him he's dumped just yet

Well i am from US and i am a hillbilly,from the hills.And no i did not break up with him because of his sick mom,too many things werent making sense as they should.If a man can send me flowers,etc a thosands miles away,whats up with getting some headphones and speakers to chat.A ND EVEN BEFORE HIS MOM WENT TO HOSPITAL HE GETS ON LATE.We are 6 hours apart,its like 6 hrs apart in time.Then says needs to pay the doctor before he can leave.Sit being i know about the laws but not in England i tell him set up payment plans,says not being supportive,all in all i made him tell me goodbye.Even with the flowers weighing in his favor,things were not meshing together,and hi im Kathy,Katherine by birth and desindent of Irish.I have Irish eyes,but in another site where i got biggest thread going,i have met alot from Ireland.Very cool people and guys are so fine.

welcome Kathy not sure what the guy means think hes sending you mixed signals

well i'm irish and i'd love to meet all these fine guys you're talking about......!!!! lol

ok so he doesn't get on til late...... i don't get on til a certain time either. i do go to college and have kids to look after and have to deal with all that normal stuff before i can come on here. and even then i'm flitting in and out like today cos i'm trying to get my cleaning done.....

i don't know about payment plans in england...... but i do know that the medical services like to be paid and paid quickly. there must be some grants he can apply for as there is over here in ireland. medical card and whatnot.

and about the speakers and headset.............. maybe he just doesn't have the time to go out and buy them.

You don't have to pay Doctors in England, its free. Especially if she is a resident.

mixed signals is what im feeling ,my brother here in US,computer expert abnd he works helping bust scammers,and since he has asked for my help with money,but why go to trouble,with the roses,im new here so bear with me,how do u answer someone its completely different .

hey,almost i run a hunk thread and they found me,i went into profiles and brought them out in other words he chatted with us,i did thing called question,and answer,and i usually have about 20 some to vote on,and have you seen the grrek gods,mercy.Anyway i had a preview night,hunks danced,sung,all online,but what it did it brings that guy out his profile see him more clearly,and i have seen some hunks,and ill get back in touch,paddy is one,owns recording studio there,and let u know of him

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hello,did someone just tell me dont have to pay the bills in England and its free,well i done the right thing,as for him i usually go by my feelings but i will miss him,not enough to sarcafice me.

well if you have an old email off him on hotmail or something....... you can trace his IP address and see what country he is in.

an email since he went to england.... it does sound a bit odd.........