How many people on here really hold back (i know i do) i.e. swearing, true feelings, and most of all emotions....................the whole thing of putting yourself out there for the world to see doesn't sit easy with me................im always up for a laugh, and have nothing to hide but i just cant help it.......................anyone else with that or is it just me

Well Jinja ........... i am the master of holding back ........ a case of having to when you have been treated like shit quite alot ................. having said that i can be very nice to bf's who sometimes presume i am head over heels, when really that is just me ............ so in short yes i hold back every time .........

Me Me Me,

i try and keep things light hearted as i think people have enough rubbish in their lives without my bull in the china shop approach.

Me Me Me,

i try and keep things light hearted as i think people have enough rubbish in their lives without my bull in the china shop approach.

Know what youy mean am new to hear but have made the decision to be honest and put myself out there. Am sick of being reserved and a shy person gets you nowhere. Want my life to move forward in a positive way and I guess that is only us that can control and determine that so here goes but alaways find myself double checking myself problem is no one from my area is on here but then again why should that special person be close to home eh! what a 5 hour drive nothing!

It's because I don't /haven't held back that I opened a new QUESTION on here today.........but sometimes I may go into private messaging because I want to share something that could be perceived as 'long and boring' to a wider audience.

think everyone does hold back a bit for fear of scaring the shit out of the person your with You can be frank and open with someone the better you know them.

I believe that people actually respect people that have the ability to express themselves it show a level of self belief, confidence and communiaction which I think are all attractive features I would rather date someone that can express themselves and is not scared of their feelings despite what someone might think SOD THEM!

i think what jinja is getting at though is posting openly and expressing yourself freely on the forums ?

Don't go to bed, we're all still here and you always have something to say.