a couple of times in relationships the question of would you ever want kids has come up, and yes i do but i feel i have to say about having the reduced fertility a couple of guys have gone funny after this, maybe it wasnt how they thought about their future, spending time going through IVF and stuff i dont know x
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Well Han, if thats the case you were best off without then. Men like that arent worth the paper their names are written on!

Wow I actually had to stop and really think about this one

My mum is disabled and while she can walk its much easier for long distances for her to use the chair

I'm under no illusions that i'm most probably going to have to look after her in later years

So no i wouldn't conciously go on a date with a seriously disabled person

I couldn't get into anything long term with them so there wouldn't be a lot of point

If i walked in on a date tho i wouldn't be climbing out of the window...wheelchairs dont make me uncomfortable in the slightest
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I dont think anyone would let you get away with that kind of behaviour especially down the local!
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I get my cock out in my local every Saturday night, people come from miles around to witness the spectacle.

Sorry I'm hijacking this thread with nonsense.. I'll shut up now.

Not being able to spell is a disability too.

It's a great pity that realistically, many people would not partner someone with a disability and as RG says, many disabled people have adapted to live life to the full, often doing far more than able bodied people.
One of my on-line friends is disabled and I'm amazed at the way he's got adapted wheelchairs for different places, one even has the caterpillar/tank like wheels for rough terrain as he loves to camp on mountain slopes with his friends.
I've also spent my whole life around disabled people of all types and I know for a fact that many would be far less demanding and capable than many able bodied but lazy and miserable people.
I do accept that there will always be those amongst us who will never be able to accept or relate to people with disabilities, so let's hope they never have to end up in that position themselves, as it could happen.
The para-olympics show how active many disabled are and what an inspiration for others that can be.

If I have a message from a guy whose profile has a lot of physical activities I do usually point out that my fitness does not match his and that I may every few years, become totally disabled for a few days followed by several weeks of my just being careful, but that it doesn't last. I'm honest about this, but I do explain how my conditions can sometimes affect my usual abilities from day to day and that most people wouldn't even notice.

Oh well. I've 'spilt the beans' now so do you reckon my messages might stop coming?
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