Well hi gang been away a few days LOL Bet no one missed me!

well life dealt me a really duff hand with my ex!

On Friday last week i discovered my eldest has produced an offspring! 2 months ago to be precise! and last Saturday got married! Wow at least he's a chip off the old block for being a fast mover!

So being me i had an appointment with a large bottle of vodka, a small bottle of tonic and several lemons!

I feal hurt that no one from his family even had the decency to let me know of the baby or the marriage! I don't even know the names or anything! all i do know is that another man will be playing at granddad and father in law.

Jeez life really sucks!
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Yikes Dave i am so so sorry.... that must be one of the most awfull things to have to endure. How could they have left you out?? I am speachless to know what to say really to this? as i find this appalling behavour.... Hugs to you thouygh. xx
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Thankyou Trace! I'm just coming through an alcohol haze at the momwent! Lots of names come to mind at present most of them pretty unpleasant!

I suppose she will get her just deserts at sometime but how the hell am i supposed to feel or behave? I'm in limbo! do i tell people i'm a granddad or not? It's hard enough being honest and saying i havn't seen them for years! people look at me as though there is something wrong with me?
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Oh Dave i am speechless... i just do not know what to say. What an awfull situation to be in. And the pain and hurt you feel must be just....... intolerable!
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thats really awful dave, nobody deserves that kind of treatment from their own family. maybe one day those involved will look back on that and feel so ashamed. nobody can really say much to you to make it feel better but i hope you are able to pick yourself up and recover from that soon mate.

Aww baby, im so so very sorry...dam families suck sometimes and whats said is the children are the ones that really get torn or brainwashed..hopefully they will realize what has happened and the people they hurt

love ya,,and new orleans is still on babe

Have pm'd you Eccles.

That's just rotten mate, not right at all, hope you get to sort something out mate.
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so sorry to hear that... it's hurtful and confusing when something like that happens...

my dad walked out on us when i was three... my mother never bad mouthed him or any such thing..... when i was 21 he got in contact... we spoke for a while and i sent him pictures of my kids..... but in the end the plain fact was i didn't like him and i don't keep in touch anymore.

but at least i was given the chance...... obviously your kids weren't.