I am totally pissed off.

I had arranged (a few weeks ago) to go to Bolton to see my family and friends this Friday coming, it's a hell of a long drive on ones own, so I asked a friend of mine to come with me, she said yeah OK.

This friend is 15½ years old, I know what some of you might be thinking, but I don't even go there.

It's just that my niece was here a few weeks ago and the two of them hit it off big time, they both exact same age to the day, so we arranged then and there we would go to Bolton.

My sister has a 3 bedroom house which she vacates for me.

I have found out today the the girl in question doesn't want to go, just because she doesn't want to.

I have kept on asking over the last few weeks, you sure you OK with going, she replied yes on every occasion, I told it was not just a drive there and come straight back, I told her we would be there for one week, she said she was more than happy with it.

I already suffer with depression, I don't need this on top

I am totally cheesed off

that sucks, im sorry. only thing u can do is tell ur friend ur feeling let down and how much it upset you, although that might make her feel bad and treat you differently, depends how mature u think she is. hope you still manage to have fun in bolton, take a cd of favourite songs along with you for the ride instead and sing ur heart out. thats what i do onlong car rides (although my car doesnt have a stereo so im left singing along to my mp3 player, ah well...)

She told me last night on MSN she didn't want to go to fucking Bolton, and also told me to piss of<<<<<<<------------ her own words.

Well I have some skeletons in my closet, might sound childish but I was thoroughly pissed off with her, so I told her 21 year old b/f what she had been doing behind his back

He is somewhat displeased with her.

I have helped this girl out on several occasion in the past, but not no more, she only used to come in to my place with her elder sister (23 years old).

Thanks for the reply btw Kathy

she sounds like a nasty little girl who has a lot of growing up to do. hopefully having her b/f pissed off at her for acting so badly will teach her a lesson it sounds like she needs, dont let her worry u. a true friend would never do that. *hugs*

Her sister lives in the flat above me, very nice girl, well mannered and appreciates all that comes her way.

She is very upset and annoyed with her, I said hey it's not your problem, don't let it bother you, but she's just a caring type of person.

It won't bother me any more Kathy, still doesn't stop one being annoyed after the so called concrete arrangements.

Again thanks for your reply, much appreciated.

Just had an idea, I'll pick Laura up on the way and we can come and join you for a drink, I know Manchester quite well (just joking/kidding)

Hmmm, think I had better got get my coat on

im in york and throwing a party 2night, come on down!