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Home >> Anything else >> Are women aware when men look at their chest ?
26.09.2006, 09:20 quote
If a women is wearing a low cut top with her jubilees nearly hanging out, is she aware that a man cant keep his eyes off them ?
Some men think women enjoy men looking at their body, why do they wear such revealing clothes? Do women enjoy it ??...depending on who the bloke is of course ?
What do women think when they wear skimpy clothes in front of red blooded, single men ?..what goes through their minds ?
Is it a case of look but don't touch is okay ? or is it wrong ?
Sorry about the long post, but most men will know where I'm coming from.
A very pretty young women came knocked on my door yesterday evening and asked do I keep pigeons ? I said yes. She asked me have I seen her ferret ? which confused me first off. I said no I haven't seen your ferret.
Apparently she not long moved in over the back of me and she keeps ferrets and one of them had got out, and she asked was it in my garden. She was very pretty and was wearing a very skimpy, small top. She had an ample chest and slim body.
I said I hope not they kill pigeons..but if it did come in the garden my dog would probably kill it.
Anyway she came in my back garden to look under my pigeon sheds, but I told her she probably wouldn't be able to see anything.
We chatted for a few minutes, then she stooped down low and peered under one of the sheds. I was looking down at her and got a right eyeful [trying not to look of course
], most men will know the problems this causes men
She stayed down there for ages looking up at me and talking, I couldn't help but look at her chest. At times she looked at me for a few moments while I was looking down at her and I kept glancing at her ample bosom. I tried no to, but I couldn't help it.
Anyway she stood up, we had a chat and she slowly walked out, I said if I see her ferret I'll let her know. Hopefully she'll com back again this evening
Also she was wearing low jeans that showed off he g-string, as they do nowadays.
I've never seen her before because she hasn't long moved in over the back of me, but I'm fairly well known in the area. But she must know I'm a single man living on my own.
Its hard because I haven't seen so much of a young women's body in gawd knows how long
Don't know how old she was but anyone under 30 looks very young to me nowadays.
I did try to be a gentleman throughout
I had the same problem when I was a TV engineer with women, going in there houses. Some of them came on to me but I thought better of it. There's a lot of frustrated women out there
But it was hard when they wear revealing clothes. Which was odd because they new I was calling to see them.
Frustrated and confused, Luton.
26.09.2006, 09:25 quote
first of all yes we know when you're looking at our chests.
second of all some women like the confidence boost it gives them when a man cannot take his eyes off them.
and thirdly if there was a sexy engineer/technician/whatever calling to my house i would be wearing as little as possible also....... that could be just the hornitus in me coming out..... but i did seduce my internet techie last year. hehe. hehe. ooo..... the memories.
that was when I ACTUALLY HAD A love LIFE!!!
26.09.2006, 10:34 quote
What makes it worse is I was at the University most of yesterday, enrolling as a mature student, and there were loads of young girls there walking around nearly naked
..standing in queue's with them for long periods is not easy.
It was a tough day for me and my todger yesterday, you might not know it but they have minds of their own and become very confused at times, especially when they have been unemployed for a long period
..the poor chap took a bit of a battering
But women can use it, and often do I suspect, against men. In the workplace looking at a women's body in a sexual way, can be classed as sexual harassment. I suppose it all depends on who's doing the looking
Is all confusing to me
26.09.2006, 10:59 quote
I can kind of see where you're coming from Jeggea. Having male attention is still rather new to me so on the one hand, I really enjoy it, but at times makes me nervous too.
If i have an electrician (or whatever) coming to my property and I'm going to be alone, i cover up. If I'm out and about, and it's a hot sunny day, I'll be damned if I'm going to cover up! I have the right to make myself as comfortable as possible on a warm day.
I don't know about other large breasted ladies, but I find that it doesn't seem to matter what i wear on top, whether it's a skimpy summer top, or a winter wooly, I get attention. I was told by one bf that winter woolies actually made my chest an even more attractive prospect!!
So either way, I can't win!!
It's interesting tho' Jeggea getting the male perspective on this. I guess there have been occasions when i've been really hacked off with a guy for looking, but I can see how it could be difficult for you (plural).
A little give and take is needed on both sides. Men need to accept that we don't always deliberately expose ourselves and should learn to behave with a little more decorum, whilst women need to appreciate that it's not always that easy on the guy either.
26.09.2006, 11:35 quote
| redoctober wrote: |
| I can kind of see where you're coming from Jeggea. Having male attention is still rather new to me so on the one hand, I really enjoy it, but at times makes me nervous too.
If i have an electrician (or whatever) coming to my property and I'm going to be alone, i cover up. If I'm out and about, and it's a hot sunny day, I'll be damned if I'm going to cover up! I have the right to make myself as comfortable as possible on a warm day. I don't know about other large breasted ladies, but I find that it doesn't seem to matter what i wear on top, whether it's a skimpy summer top, or a winter wooly, I get attention. I was told by one bf that winter woolies actually made my chest an even more attractive prospect!! So either way, I can't win!! It's interesting tho' Jeggea getting the male perspective on this. I guess there have been occasions when i've been really hacked off with a guy for looking, but I can see how it could be difficult for you (plural). A little give and take is needed on both sides. Men need to accept that we don't always deliberately expose ourselves and should learn to behave with a little more decorum, whilst women need to appreciate that it's not always that easy on the guy either. |
But things are differnt now then years ago. Young girls, young teenagers even. Walk aorund showing the cheeks of their arse and their knickers/g strings. I dont suppose it was like that in your day
It is confusing..this young women was stoopping down for quite a time, and her top didnt leave much to he imagination.
At one point while she was talking to me looking up at me. I deliberatly had a long look at her chest to see what her response would be, sometimes men do that
She stood up very slowly, and stood in front of me, and we had a chat about her ferret. I don't think she was the brightest person in the world, and she is blond [not saying that all blonds arent bright, we know from this forum that some are
Funny thing is, I was the one that got uncomfortable about the situation, and gestured her out of the gate, and said I'll let her know if I see her ferret. She didn't seem in any rush to leave
I really don't know what to make of it all, and what she was after. Just her ferret probably
26.09.2006, 13:08 quote
Are you sure she even has a ferret
For all we know you could have a secret admirer (well not so secret anymore)
Im by no means an authority, but women dress up to impress each other as well as just us. The amount of times i have seen girls go red, bitter and sour because someone they don't like looks stunning makes me believe that they'd rather impress each other rather than us at times. Are men an influence in it i don't know, but if someone who is unpopular is turning heads, it drives the bitches who don't like her mad.
As for taking advantage of it, during college my classmates and I had to give several presentations that we were going to be marked on for our M.A's. It was a smallish enough class but one of the girls has very large and magnificent breasts, and on every occasion she highlighted them by a low cut top or a flattering firm type of thing. Ill be honest in that i found it hard to concentrate. We had to dress up because the style of presentation was marked as well as the content.
I mean i wore a suit, i wanted to look good, but my classmate highlighted one of her more attractive features to facilitate this mark. Is this a good or a bad thing i don't know, im just glad i didn't have the job of marking her.
26.09.2006, 14:05 quote
| ChiefOHara wrote: |
| Are you sure she even has a ferret Im by no means an authority, but women dress up to impress each other as well as just us. The amount of times i have seen girls go red, bitter and sour because someone they don't like looks stunning makes me believe that they'd rather impress each other rather than us at times. Are men an influence in it i don't know, but if someone who is unpopular is turning heads, it drives the bitches who don't like her mad. As for taking advantage of it, during college my classmates and I had to give several presentations that we were going to be marked on for our M.A's. It was a smallish enough class but one of the girls has very large and magnificent breasts, and on every occasion she highlighted them by a low cut top or a flattering firm type of thing. Ill be honest in that i found it hard to concentrate. We had to dress up because the style of presentation was marked as well as the content. I mean i wore a suit, i wanted to look good, but my classmate highlighted one of her more attractive features to facilitate this mark. Is this a good or a bad thing i don't know, im just glad i didn't have the job of marking her. |
That's part of my problem..not sure how I should have dealt with it, If I was 20 years younger [even 10] maybe it wouldn't have been a problem. It did cross my mind is she doing this for a bet
But I'm a fat, balding, slob at the moment. I doubt she was interested in anything like that out of me.
It did leave highly aroused, and thinking I wish I'd dealt with it a bit different. At least asked her to come back today to see it the ferret had turned up. But then maybe I dealt with it as I should have, being a gentlemen just having a sly look. Rather then a lecherous old man.
But I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't..I could easily get branded as a dirty old man.
But as I said before, in the past people have said I look younger then my age [and some tell the truth
I'm very confused
26.09.2006, 14:17 quote
| Jeggea wrote: |
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But things are differnt now then years ago. Young girls, young teenagers even. Walk aorund showing the cheeks of their arse and their knickers/g strings. I dont suppose it was like that in your day |
Hey, I resent that comment.
I'm a teenager, and I sure in hell don't dress like I should be on the game.
I'm one of the few that wear respectable clothes. I don't like men leering at me, thank you very much.
26.09.2006, 14:31 quote
| Jeggea wrote: |
| I'm a fat, balding, slob at the moment. |
Well that's 2 of us, anymore
26.09.2006, 14:34 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: | ||
Hey, I resent that comment. I'm a teenager, and I sure in hell don't dress like I should be on the game. I'm one of the few that wear respectable clothes. I don't like men leering at me, thank you very much. |
okay.
btw, where did I comment that anyone dresses like they are on the game ?..you had better show the correct quote. What I said is true IMO.
26.09.2006, 14:40 quote
| Jeggea wrote: |
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okay. btw, where did I comment that anyone dresses like they are on the game ?..you had better show the correct quote. What I said is true IMO. |
You didn't say that. I did.
And you shouldn't generalise teenage girls like that. We're not all the same.
26.09.2006, 14:45 quote
Well I'm going to borrow one of Morillos G-strings so I can have show it to the world, what f***ing sight that would be
26.09.2006, 14:49 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: | ||
You didn't say that. I did. And you shouldn't generalise teenage girls like that. We're not all the same. |
I didn't say all teenagers are the same. But teenagers do dress as I said.
26.09.2006, 14:53 quote
When a guy is not looking in my eyes when talking to me, but below, how can i not tell hes looking somewhere else...most clothes accentuate a womans bosom these days...as for me yes i look better with low cut blouses to make my neck look leaner and longer..hehe...ask morillo and the other guys on here about my first pic...what were they looking at????? and no i dont wear them to make men stare, hell i wish i was smaller sometimes
26.09.2006, 16:57 quote
| Jeggea wrote: |
| I didn't say all teenagers are the same. But teenagers do dress as I said. |
You said in one of the posts:
"Also she was wearing low jeans that showed off he g-string, as they do nowadays"
And:
"Young girls, young teenagers even. Walk aorund showing the cheeks of their arse and their knickers/g strings"
Which makes it seem like you think that we all dress the same..?
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