Is it just me or do we all get contacted by a lot of people with appaling manners, a lack of simple things just like a please or a thankyou.
Also do you get put off by someone who curses in their messages?

its true there a lot of rude people out there and for most of them they will never learn. I wouldn't let it get to you, just ignore them and move on.

I think the simple pleases and thank you's go a long way in life and show good character.

People who swear in personal messages probably aren't worth the effort of talking to.

BTW: welcome to the boards....
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thanks.
I don't let it bother me though.
It's the ones that are really rude and then accuse you of being rude when your not begging them to sleep with you that are the worst.

The solution is simple, just snap me up right now and then you won't need a dating site any more.

Its interesting how they try and make you out to be the bad one for not going with their often lewd ideas.

It kind of makes me think that perhaps they have a deeper problem hence thats why they are looking for that sort of thing.

It mostly seems to be men messaging women, where they get the idea that women will randomly sleep with them I shall never know.
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Yep, that's a complete mystery. Especially when it's a really old guy messaging a really young girl to sleep with him, and he's not even a millionaire. Lol.

both actually but the last search I did was women only and I haven't changed it back yet lol

Bollocks, that's me out of it then.

but i might not be ........ there is a God ..........

I have a real potty mouth at times, but I only use those words as they are sometimes the most descriptive way of getting the point across. (i.e. Yeah, I know him, that bloke's a c*nt).
I don't mean anything by it, it just saves me from typing in another 20 or so words that is all.
Anyway, are they only just words? I suppose when you are throwing those words actually AT someone, then it is different, (i.e : YOU are a c*nt), then I guess you could say it is bang out of order.

It's just as difficult to find women as it is men unfortunately. But what I mean about the swearing is when people do it for now reason e.g. how are you? I'm really F*cking bored