OK, Ive been getting alot of grief over a post in a different thread. I just want to even a few things out and sorry, cant do it PM as Im blocked. I was getting on well with a particular chatter, so much so that I trusted him, I thought it may have turned into something lasting, he said he did too. We arranged to meet, we couldnt the first time for transport reasons, so we started to arrange another meet up. I then heard of a friend being killed. It knocked me back and I needed some time out, I explained all this, thought it would be OK. I then popped back in here to be faced with what was termed 'harmless flirting, it didnt mean anything' I confess it hurt. Rightly or wrongly I added a post. Since then the meet arranged has been denied as had anything going on. I have now been told that it is going on and its my fault for stepping back and not confiding, he 'lost the plot' his words. Anyway, I will apologise for any upset I have caused and would like to say sorry for any wrong doing on my part. I would also like to wish Trace and Eccles all the very best for the future. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXxxx