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05.01.2009, 19:24 quote

LittleVixen
LittleVixen Joined: 11 Oct 2006 Posts: 10687 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cornwall
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I just want to apologise for my bad behaviour this past week, there are a lot of things going on in my life which got out of control & I have stupidly let it get to me big time....normal service will be resumed as soon as possible Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed

No i'm not the hidden user Confused

& Harvey if you or anyone else wants me to resign as moderator I will Crying or Very sad

I'm very Sorry & I cant apologise enough to everyone, if you really knew me that well you would know i'm not usually like that Sad
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05.01.2009, 19:29 quote

Bliss23
Bliss23 Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Posts: 5139 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Edinburgh
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You know wha', LilVix... Whatever it is that you've done... I think we're all friends here, or so I'd like to think...

Also think that you've proven your moderating skills are top notch and also what kind of person you are. So please don't resign. I think I might've said this before.

Everybody's got bad days... Some have bad weeks... And some even have bad years... And facing them alone is not always an option.

It's only human.

I think ye'r great and if you ever need help I can provide, do say so. You'll always have a friend here. xx
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05.01.2009, 19:29 quote

alanpartridge83

LittleVixen wrote:
I just want to apologise for my bad behaviour this past week, there are a lot of things going on in my life which got out of control & I have stupidly let it get to me big time....normal service will be resumed as soon as possible Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed

No i'm not the hidden user Confused

& Harvey if you or anyone else wants me to resign as moderator I will Crying or Very sad

I'm very Sorry & I cant apologise enough, if you really knew me you would know i'm not usually like that Sad


fair comment but as u said urself it was out of character so nowt to apologise for Smile

 

05.01.2009, 19:33 quote

jeggae
jeggae Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 1316 Location: United Kingdom, England, Bedfordshire
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Apology accepted Smile...but what have I missed??

 

05.01.2009, 19:37 quote

unimportant
unimportant Joined: 07 Aug 2008 Posts: 308 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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,... and, then... Bang...Bang.........
even into your grave , u can roll yourself like a fish without water....and I will still not forgive u....


what did she did wrong? Confused

 

05.01.2009, 19:57 quote

agonal

LittleVixen wrote:
I just want to apologise for my bad behaviour this past week, there are a lot of things going on in my life which got out of control & I have stupidly let it get to me big time....normal service will be resumed as soon as possible Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed

No i'm not the hidden user Confused

& Harvey if you or anyone else wants me to resign as moderator I will Crying or Very sad

I'm very Sorry & I cant apologise enough, if you really knew me you would know i'm not usually like that Sad


It's not up to me who is Moderator on here - although I do think they should police the forums in an appropriate frame of mind and manner.

I for one do not like the "suicidal notes" left on the forums - it is not the place. I have told you I am your friend and will be there for you. I did not enjoy the way you made me feel this weekend with what I read and was told about your posting.

Samaritans are a wonderful service, my mum and ex are part of it - reach out to those with the skills, not post on a what should be a fun relaxation.

Oh and your "sincere apology" has given me what I wanted - a handful of people offering you a helping hand. Thanking you all kindly in advance.


That is all.

 

05.01.2009, 20:15 quote

mimib
mimib Joined: 05 Oct 2008 Posts: 1024 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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agonal wrote:
LittleVixen wrote:
I just want to apologise for my bad behaviour this past week, there are a lot of things going on in my life which got out of control & I have stupidly let it get to me big time....normal service will be resumed as soon as possible Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed

No i'm not the hidden user Confused

& Harvey if you or anyone else wants me to resign as moderator I will Crying or Very sad

I'm very Sorry & I cant apologise enough, if you really knew me you would know i'm not usually like that Sad


It's not up to me who is Moderator on here - although I do think they should police the forums in an appropriate frame of mind and manner.

I for one do not like the "suicidal notes" left on the forums - it is not the place. I have told you I am your friend and will be there for you. I did not enjoy the way you made me feel this weekend with what I read and was told about your posting.

Samaritans are a wonderful service, my mum and ex are part of it - reach out to those with the skills, not post on a what should be a fun relaxation.

Oh and your "sincere apology" has given me what I wanted - a handful of people offering you a helping hand. Thanking you all kindly in advance.


That is all.


I am not going to interfere in that as I haven't got a clue what it is about, but I always thought it is a marketplace of communication where you tell as much as you are willing to? So not only about fun topics? [/list]

 

05.01.2009, 20:19 quote

agonal

mimib wrote:
agonal wrote:
LittleVixen wrote:
I just want to apologise for my bad behaviour this past week, there are a lot of things going on in my life which got out of control & I have stupidly let it get to me big time....normal service will be resumed as soon as possible Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed

No i'm not the hidden user Confused

& Harvey if you or anyone else wants me to resign as moderator I will Crying or Very sad

I'm very Sorry & I cant apologise enough, if you really knew me you would know i'm not usually like that Sad


It's not up to me who is Moderator on here - although I do think they should police the forums in an appropriate frame of mind and manner.

I for one do not like the "suicidal notes" left on the forums - it is not the place. I have told you I am your friend and will be there for you. I did not enjoy the way you made me feel this weekend with what I read and was told about your posting.

Samaritans are a wonderful service, my mum and ex are part of it - reach out to those with the skills, not post on a what should be a fun relaxation.

Oh and your "sincere apology" has given me what I wanted - a handful of people offering you a helping hand. Thanking you all kindly in advance.


That is all.


I am not going to interfere in that as I haven't got a clue what it is about, but I always thought it is a marketplace of communication where you tell as much as you are willing to? So not only about fun topics? [/list]


The place will be closed down if "suicide notes" keep being left and I am sure everyone here enjoys it here, so will want to stay.

I have no regrets in what I have written. I stand by my every word and will continue my manifesto of having fun.

Good evening everyone!!!! xx

 

05.01.2009, 20:27 quote

bexbex

Does this apology also cover your little dig at me Freda? I made a general observation about you as you don't actually keep things quiet. No malice, just a bit of fun as the majority of the threads on here are and should be.

Maybe you need to take some time away to get back on track. Hope you feel more like you old self soon.

 

05.01.2009, 21:53 quote

Loveleelady
Loveleelady Joined: 12 Aug 2007 Posts: 434 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Belfast
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I agree with the sentiment of what Harvey is saying. I was appalled, shocked and very scared by what you were saying on the boards on Sat night Freeda. I did my best to contact people who could try and help you I was prepared to conact the police if necessary. I was 100% genuine in my concerns for you and my encouragement for you to phone the samaritans. On saturday night after turning of the net, I was afraid for you and prayed that you would be okay and still alive in the morning. I was that afraid I contacted Harvey and he was able to text you. I also alerted one of the other moderators and the site owner because of my concerns. I believe you need help and this can't be excused as a 'bad day'. When I came on here I never expected to come across the likes of this and don't want to again. At the present time I don't think you are suitable as moderator untill you get some help. I wish you all the best whatever happens and sincerely hope things work out for you.

 

05.01.2009, 22:03 quote

agonal

I tip my hat to you tonight Lady. You have balls.

 
 
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