Ok, I've recently hooked up with a girl who I work with. We have been seeing each other casually for a couple of weeks, but as of Sunday, we both decided to make it official (as much as boyfriend/girlfriend anyway).

Anyhow, its her Birthday this weekend, and I'd like to do something nice for her, but I really dont know what. I have thought of booking an hotel in the lake district or somewhere else nice, but dont know if thats something I should talk to her about first. I mean, Ill obviously get her a nice present or three, thats not the issue, I have some ideas what gifts to buy her. I am more stuck on 'what' to do.

Money is not really an object, so any suggestions would be appreciated.. thx ..

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Russ
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If you're head over heels and you're confident that it's mutual then take her out properly. Take her to Paris or somewhere for a weekend break.

The only thing is you are at quite an early stage in the relationship. It's possible that she already has plans involving her friends/family and you may not want to piss off everybody else around her. In your situation, I'd check out the feasibility of two or three different things:

e.g. 1. stay local to where you are but go to a restaurant then a show
2. go away (but somewhere reasonably local) for the night,
3. go away somewhere abroad for a weekend.

Let the girl choose, Just research each option and be prepared to go with whichever she prefers.

Yeah it can be hard to try and do something special
wot about the theatre for something a bit different
then again not sure if u got any where u live resin
(and i dont mean the cinema either)
always bin great whenever i've been and im lucky coz london is full of 'em
av a gooden wotever yeah!?

old on a minute if u got a bit of cash rapped round ya
a realy top restaurant always go's down well
(and again i dont mean maccy d's)

Thats twice today someone has beat me to it ha ha ha!!!
almost identical post, guess im just too slow

Right wot about??????????
oh bloodyhell i cant think of nothing else
and anyway someone would have put it up by the time i write this
sod it!!

enjoy yourselves wotever jinj

Two weeks? Buy her a card and some flowers and cook her dinner.

Do something completely different, go tandem sky diving or bungee jumping, your unlikely to piss of anyone else and she'll definatly remember it

Theatre and stuff is good, going away for the weekend in so early a relationship i reckon is trying too hard. Save that for next year or something like valentines day.

Oooh, actually, just noticed your in wolverhampton, in that case take her to cadbury world - its a themepark that gives you free chocolate If shes like 99% of the female population she'll love it

Everyone i know whose been there has raved about it, mostly for the free choccy tho
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Not to mention that if she wasn't concerned by this and thought it was only to be expected then money will soon be an object as she'd have to be extremely high maintenance or if she isn't yet she soon would be.
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dont splash the cash, its way too early in the relationship.

krian idea sounds good, but ask her what she would like to do as she may have plans.

why dont you get her one of those red letter day gifts so then she can use it any time

He wanted ideas not opinions lady's
if he want's to splash the cash then good on him........................

Darkhorses Manual For Birthdays (Paramour Edition) indicates that, at the 2 week stage, a balloon in a box, along with a cuddly teddy is appropriate and always works a treat.

Not allowed to advertise on this site, are we? Argh, wtf, I don't care, if I get barred, I get barred, I got worse problems than getting barred from a forum for telling someone where to buy a nice birthday gift.....go to this site, make sure you get the teddy with the magnetic hands that goes over its eyes (called Little Lost Bear)

Ya barred