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04.01.2007, 20:32 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7246 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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If you are anything like me Mandie it wont be on the new phone but it will however be stored somewhere where you could get it if you really wanted to but not that easily accesible Very Happy

 

16.01.2007, 01:28 quote

michaelhockaday
michaelhockaday Joined: 10 Mar 2005 Posts: 15 Location: United Kingdom, England, Devon
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almostpurrrfect wrote:
what do you do when you can't forget someone no matter how hard you try and no matter how long it's been since you were with them? how do you stop yourself thinking of them when a certain song comes on, or when you read a stupid inane sentence in a book, or think of nothing at all and *Poof* there they are, invading your thoughts again, like some sort of crazed, half demon, half god terrorist, hell bent on making you remember what was....and what is, no more? you still have their number in your phone and you JUST CAN'T delete it!! you want to...but just can't bring yourself to push the yes button when it asks you if you're sure you want to delete the contact. you can still hear them laughing, whispering and breathing in your ear even in the middle of rush hour traffic. and most of all, when you're alone, with nothing to do and nobody to talk to....... you can still feel thier fingers dance along your spine, their breath on your face, their lips on your skin and their heart beating in time to your own.

what do you do then?


I tell you that I completely sypathise with your situation...my first love is still in my mind to this day...but you know that people move on and barriers are broken down and then you build walls to climb over. How do I cope with my past 2 lovers and the thoughts I have for them??? I don't always.

I reflect on the experiences, the good firstly and then if I feel like I'm creating an unimaginable desperate phonecall opportunity then I remember why we split up and why I'm not with them now...that usually solves the problem and puts my mind at ease...imho tho, that is only my situation...just a frog leg to throw into the cauldron of despair...sorry I couldn't be of more use!

Mike

 
 
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