why do men say u look good when u know u dont? it is hard when u have a fuller figure u dont feel so conferdant why is this? is it cause of men in ya past or is it just that it is a way of life people always think bad of the fuller person, let me know what your thoughts are thanks x x x

answer me this pure.... why do you care what some random guy thinks of you???? seriously. i am a curvy 14/16 and i knowwwww when i look good. don't confuse that with full-of-myselfness lol... i'm not. but i do know when i look good.

everyone knows when they look good. the only person who's opinion matters is your own. now if you feel you look bad, change ur clothes. but don't be put off by some random jerkoff who likes to make people feel bad about themselves... it's probably the only way he can look at his own sorry ass in the mirror.

I can see where you're coming from here. I used to get comments by people..And I used to let it affect me.

Now if anybody says anything to try and make me feel bad, I either make a joke out of it(while being secretly annoyed) or just ignore them.

What kind of an idiot would say something to put somebody down?

yea i know what u r saying is true, i am married to a great guy but sometimes i think why is he with me when he could have his pic of women, i have been put down all of my life and men still do it now and i do take it to heart and i know i should not, i just wounder why stay when u can have someone better

There's a lot of things I hate about myself.


But I always concentrate on the things I like.

exactly

I can smile my way through anything.

Like all my friends think i'm happy right now......but the real friends know i'm not. Because I appear all smiley and happy.

Or if i'm having an 'ugh I hate myself day' I cover it up by wearing something that makes me feel good about myself - Can be anything from my favourite shoes, to a pair of earrings...

underwear does it for me... and having my hair loose so it shimmers all the way down to the small of my back...hehe

u r so true all of ya, but i think everyone has been there and things do knock ya but then as u say just take no notice and pick yaself up

i know what ya mean, but it take time to trust in yaself, i think i am gettin there slowly but with faith i will get there in the end

u have all helped me tonite with your words and i thank you all