I'm 18, i never got pregnent on perpose and i didnt sleep around it was with a person i loved.. but i have been pregnant a couple times but misscaried every time, thay said cause i was so young and my family history at this point ill probly never be able to hold a pregnancy... i didnt do it on perpose but i wouldnt of been sad to have a kid eather expecialy growing up being told i wasnt probly gana have any to get me used to the idea, that just made me want a family of my own even more.. when you only had a few things in life you realy wanted and youv finaly started to except that your not gana get the one you wanted most and so early in life.. what are you suposed to fill i still want kids but i dont want to think of what i cant have and almost did anymore but that just makes me fill even sader thinking of it like that.. how do you cope without going insane i fill like its over

I personally would feel traumatised if I couldn't have children. I really want a son one day.

I don't think there's all that many people around here in that predicament really, so it would be difficult to say.

In any case, do you know that you are unable to have children? You mustn't give up based on inadequate advice or information.
It may also happen later in life for you; you can only see that at the time, not now.

*would be good if this thing let me delete posts somehow!*

I think with todays technology there is so much there to help people to have a baby.

I have a friend who miscarried so many times and under went a new kind of IVF. Basically there was a problem with her and her husband. The first time it failed but luckily the second time it worked. Like with most IVF treatments, multiple babies are high and she fell pregnant with twins, sadly she miscarried one of the twins and was basically kept in hospital for the duration of the pregnancy and thank god she gave birth to a healthy boy so tens years after her first miscarriage she finally got the little baby that she had longed for for so many years!

so it can happen....

I have always said I dont think i will be able to fall pregnant, i wont go in to the reasons as to why but i have and will consider adoption if and when the time arises, even if I do manage to fall pregnant i would still like to adopt.

hmm thankyou guys varry much varry helpfull

I'm traumatized knowing that I can have kids...

I was told that I could never get pregnant but I did, with twins. Unfortunately I lost one before they were born but I had the most beautiful baby girl in the world. So all hope is not lost. Don't lose faith, you never know what could happen. Good luck to you.

Adoption is always an option. There are so many babies and children out there that would welcome your love.
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