Some of you know I started seeing a girl 3 or 4 weeks ago, it was all going well and we weren't 'official' but we were still close and i wouldn't have pulled anyone else and when people said we were a nice couple she never corrected them to say we weren't 'officially' one.

She went to a club last night and I was meant to go with her but I was ill so I couldn't, anyway, it turns out that in the club she got with some guy. My mate (sarah) saw this and asked what she was doing, the girl im seeing tried to defend herself but sarah wasn't having it and had a bit of a go at her.

This morning the girl im seeing sent me a text saying shed got with someone in the club and wanted to tell me as it was better coming from her than sarah.

To be honest with you I'm proper pissed off about it and genuinly hurt, she's just wiped her ass in my face and shown me f*ck all respect and has taken the piss out of me.

Shes been texting me today saying she wants me to go to a party with her tomorrow night but I said I feel if I don't go then she'll just get with someone else and that I wanted to see her but now I'm not sure if i do.

What should I do about the slag that im seeing?

Well, it's really your choice CFL...

You can have a chat with her and decide if you're going serious or not...

Or you can just gather from what she's done that you're not going serious and go on like that, as in sorta shag buddies slash couple slash bla whatever and go with the wind...

Or, of course... You could just forget about her and move on.

I don't wana stop seeing her coz i like the fact that i'm guaranteed a shag and she is quite sweet when shes not being a slut.

She's hurt me so I think I'm gona have to make it hard for her to get me back or hurt her back because her disrespecting me when I don't deserve it just isn't on.

CFl, it looks like as if she was just trying to get a reaction out of you, see how you did feel. I think the positive you can take is that she does like you, but what will happen if she feels the need to act out again?

Whilst I wouldn't say there's a repeat performance in the pipes, there will be some kind of none too nice reaction from her.
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I got in touch with my feminine side. She emailed me back saying if I ever contacted her again she'd call the police.

I think this is exactly what happens when two people don't clarify with each other what kind of relationship they have to each other. Unless that's sorted, nothing should be taken for granted and assumed so therefore has there actually been a wrong doing? Seems strange that two people are prepared to be intimate with each other yet still don't seem to be able to talk to each other about the things that obviously matter.

Revenge is never sweet... getting back..... mind games are all best avoided....
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u guys seem to be on different pages. u seem more mature where as she wants to go out n party n hookup with whoever, this type of chick is not one to date. she clearly wants to be ur friend if she wants to party with yah but u should refuse cuz u still got feelings for her. my advice look for someone new with simmilar goals that u share good luck.

Is this the same girl who had a fixation with your car?