Hey all, i can give advice to people but cannot always give it to myself.

I 'pulled' a girl about 2 weeks ago now, ended up sleeping with her, and i give her a text saying i hope i see you again, she says you will, keep in touch. Well i am keeping in touch by text, because we have gone home for the summer (from uni). But i dont want to seem over keen, i get the odd reply but she doesnt always reply, i asked if when we got back i could take her out, she didnt reply.

What should i say to her, im no good at explaining on texts, im so much better in real person. Should i leave it with the last text and wait for her to text me now?

Or should i text her mate something? Please help, so i know if she likes me at all lol.

well id say text her and tell her u like her!! but not in so many words... hint it... hint that it wasnt just sex!! mayb she was usin u? i dnt know but mayb if u waited 4 her 2 reply u mite ov been waitin 4ever!! u go wiv wot u think is rite!! im not that gd wiv advice i jst go wiv wot i think is rite lol... but gd luck dan hope it goes ok!!


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I personally wouldn't text her again. Let her do the running now as you have done a lot already. If she aint interested then she wont text ya back or she will have the guts to tell ya. If she does like ya and u dont text her again, she will realise that uve waited too long on a reply and arent bothering any more. Dont think she will be long in gettin n touch. Ur such a lovely lad, she would be mental not to text!!



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I did a mass text thing today for my birthday bbq, and she replied to that to tell me she was on holiday when i was having it, she said sorry for it, i sent one more and got another reply, so its not all bad. She just chose to ignore the taking her out one.

For the first few texts i ever sent she did seem like she wanted to see me again, and has hinted that she does want to see me. I just want to get to know her a little bit. She seems to always leave me the last one to text, which is very awkward, as if i text again im seeming too eager.

Maybe she is just not really a texter lol. She also did say to me, why did she have to meet me at that time of year, because we were going home for summer. Ahh well. I shouldnt really get attached like i do, just getting to know her better would make me feel a bit better. Doesnt help that she was very pretty.

You think me just keeping in touch over the summer is the best, by sending the odd text like once a week or something?

I think its pretty obvious to her that you like her, IMO leave it at that. The balls in her court now.

I agree with Queenie dont text her again.

Thanks alot guys. Yeh it was fun for the night, but i would love to get to know her a little better. I send the random text but not half as much as i used to. Just hope i can see her when we get back, she has said she will do. Im leaving at that now for the summer.

I agree with the Queen. You'll come across the wrong way if you continue to text with little reply.

I would do what most people on here said to do ,

dont txt her, if you have to, once a week,

that will still let her know your kean but without it being to full on!

I agree with the ladies what they are saying on here, take there advice on here..
Just don't text message her every day,
my best advice for you don't let to get your feelings hurt with this woman too much.

Just text message her once a week!!

Thanks,
Richard