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02.10.2006, 15:18 quote

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welshpetal wrote:
redoctober wrote:
welshpetal wrote:
moldypeach wrote:
nope i tell potential people straight away, if they do a runner because of it that's not the type of person i want to be with Very Happy


same here Smile well almost i try and figure them out a bit first make sure they aint dodgy and then i tell them cos my little boys the biggest part of my life Very Happy i was nervous about telling aradon thought it might scare him off Crying or Very sad but i told him and it's all good Very Happy Embarassed


aaw, takes a fair bit to scare Aradon Very Happy Wink You'll do alright with him Petal
thx red Very Happy he's a cool guy Twisted Evil just hope i dont scare him if we ever meet lol we seem to have a bit in common Smile i find it hard talking online sometimes you know when you get stumped your like "hello" and they're like "hello" and then it goes all quiet Laughing hows you today? your easy to talk to too Smile

aww, thanks Very Happy

I think that how you talk via something like msn is a great indicater of how well you're going to get on. if the conversation flows and you can keep up with the way they 'talk' and you have plenty of laughs, then chances are, you'll be fine Very Happy

 

03.10.2006, 14:09 quote

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redoctober wrote:
welshpetal wrote:
redoctober wrote:
welshpetal wrote:
moldypeach wrote:
nope i tell potential people straight away, if they do a runner because of it that's not the type of person i want to be with Very Happy


same here Smile well almost i try and figure them out a bit first make sure they aint dodgy and then i tell them cos my little boys the biggest part of my life Very Happy i was nervous about telling aradon thought it might scare him off Crying or Very sad but i told him and it's all good Very Happy Embarassed


aaw, takes a fair bit to scare Aradon Very Happy Wink You'll do alright with him Petal
thx red Very Happy he's a cool guy Twisted Evil just hope i dont scare him if we ever meet lol we seem to have a bit in common Smile i find it hard talking online sometimes you know when you get stumped your like "hello" and they're like "hello" and then it goes all quiet Laughing hows you today? your easy to talk to too Smile

aww, thanks Very Happy

I think that how you talk via something like msn is a great indicater of how well you're going to get on. if the conversation flows and you can keep up with the way they 'talk' and you have plenty of laughs, then chances are, you'll be fine Very Happy


indeedy! been chatting on there the last few mornings and it's all good Very Happy hope your ok red Smile

 

03.10.2006, 14:43 quote

Aradon
Aradon Joined: 10 Aug 2006 Posts: 3090 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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prfftt scare me off, LMAO trust me im 'ard me!!!!

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I was nervoud about telling petal too but like she said, its all good Very Happy
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03.10.2006, 15:37 quote

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Aradon wrote:
prfftt scare me off, LMAO trust me im 'ard me!!!!

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I was nervoud about telling petal too but like she said, its all good Very Happy

Ignore him Petal. Soft as butter he is And I doubt I'll be grinning much more than i am when my own kids start going gooey over someone Wink

And I'm fine thanks Petal. Hope you are too, tho' I'm quite sure the answer'll be 'yea I am'

 

07.10.2006, 20:05 quote

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fred872 Joined: 04 Oct 2006 Posts: 13 Location: United Kingdom, England, Hampshire
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Very Happy you need to start with every thing up front my son means the world to me and he is part of who i am and if they run now then may be thats better than running later

 

07.10.2006, 20:35 quote

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fred872 wrote:
Very Happy you need to start with every thing up front my son means the world to me and he is part of who i am and if they run now then may be thats better than running later


Welcome Fred Smile

I totally agree with you most defo better sooner rather than later and if they dont like it they can lump it eh! Laughing

No matter what my son always comes 1st

 

07.10.2006, 21:18 quote

Aradon
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welshpetal wrote:
fred872 wrote:
Very Happy you need to start with every thing up front my son means the world to me and he is part of who i am and if they run now then may be thats better than running later


Welcome Fred Smile

I totally agree with you most defo better sooner rather than later and if they dont like it they can lump it eh! Laughing

No matter what my son always comes 1st


i totally agree, i have 3 totally GORGEOUS princesses to call my own, if someone i liked didnt like the idea of me having kids then they just wouldnt be right for me LOL
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08.10.2006, 14:49 quote

fred872
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Laughing also it takes a lot of time and effort on both people to waste if it is something they cant cope with. unless its a case of one night stand then the more info they have about you the more there is to fall in love with. Wink

 
 
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