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26.09.2006, 15:58 quote

Anonymous

Yes you should inform them about your child if it was the other way wouldn't you want to know about their kids it is a part of them and in the right relationship it's about honesty and sharing responsabilty and if they have a problem with that they aren't as nice as they make out (sorry if I'm being to blunt)

 
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26.09.2006, 16:05 quote

Anonymous

It's always a good idea to tell people as soon as you can. Not "Hi, I have a kid by the way"
But just letting them know.

More fool them if they run away.

 
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02.10.2006, 09:14 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
It's always a good idea to tell people as soon as you can. Not "Hi, I have a kid by the way"
But just letting them know.

More fool them if they run away.


When or if I decide to settle down I'd probably be happy with a woman with a couple of smallish kids. As long as she told me, and their wasn't too much baggage with a previous partner.

 
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02.10.2006, 09:19 quote

Anonymous

Jeggea wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
It's always a good idea to tell people as soon as you can. Not "Hi, I have a kid by the way"
But just letting them know.

More fool them if they run away.


When or if I decide to settle down I'd probably be happy with a woman with a couple of smallish kids. As long as she told me, and their wasn't too much baggage with a previous partner.


How about 2 smallich kids, 2 teenagers and 2 ex husbands?!!!! Confused

 
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02.10.2006, 09:22 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
It's always a good idea to tell people as soon as you can. Not "Hi, I have a kid by the way"
But just letting them know.

More fool them if they run away.


When or if I decide to settle down I'd probably be happy with a woman with a couple of smallish kids. As long as she told me, and their wasn't too much baggage with a previous partner.


How about 2 smallich kids, 2 teenagers and 2 ex husbands?!!!! Confused


Honestly depends on the Woman and the kids and how much baggage.

 
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02.10.2006, 09:24 quote

Aradon
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I have no issues, although I recently told someone off here and i must admit it went through my mind what they might think/do.
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02.10.2006, 09:24 quote

Anonymous

Jeggea wrote:
redoctober wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
It's always a good idea to tell people as soon as you can. Not "Hi, I have a kid by the way"
But just letting them know.

More fool them if they run away.


When or if I decide to settle down I'd probably be happy with a woman with a couple of smallish kids. As long as she told me, and their wasn't too much baggage with a previous partner.


How about 2 smallich kids, 2 teenagers and 2 ex husbands?!!!! Confused


Honestly depends on the Woman and the kids and how much baggage.

hmm.. methinks you mean how much hassle? Very little. i get on well with the boys dad and have very little to do with the girls dad.

 
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02.10.2006, 09:28 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
redoctober wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
It's always a good idea to tell people as soon as you can. Not "Hi, I have a kid by the way"
But just letting them know.

More fool them if they run away.


When or if I decide to settle down I'd probably be happy with a woman with a couple of smallish kids. As long as she told me, and their wasn't too much baggage with a previous partner.


How about 2 smallich kids, 2 teenagers and 2 ex husbands?!!!! Confused


Honestly depends on the Woman and the kids and how much baggage.

hmm.. methinks you mean how much hassle? Very little. i get on well with the boys dad and have very little to do with the girls dad.


Okay..When can I move in then ? Very Happy

 
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02.10.2006, 09:29 quote

Aradon
Aradon Joined: 10 Aug 2006 Posts: 3090 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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Jeggea wrote:
redoctober wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
redoctober wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
It's always a good idea to tell people as soon as you can. Not "Hi, I have a kid by the way"
But just letting them know.

More fool them if they run away.


When or if I decide to settle down I'd probably be happy with a woman with a couple of smallish kids. As long as she told me, and their wasn't too much baggage with a previous partner.


How about 2 smallich kids, 2 teenagers and 2 ex husbands?!!!! Confused


Honestly depends on the Woman and the kids and how much baggage.

hmm.. methinks you mean how much hassle? Very little. i get on well with the boys dad and have very little to do with the girls dad.


Okay..When can I move in then ? Very Happy


Straight to the point, gotta love that in a person!!!
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02.10.2006, 09:39 quote

Anonymous

Aradon wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
redoctober wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
redoctober wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
It's always a good idea to tell people as soon as you can. Not "Hi, I have a kid by the way"
But just letting them know.

More fool them if they run away.


When or if I decide to settle down I'd probably be happy with a woman with a couple of smallish kids. As long as she told me, and their wasn't too much baggage with a previous partner.


How about 2 smallich kids, 2 teenagers and 2 ex husbands?!!!! Confused


Honestly depends on the Woman and the kids and how much baggage.

hmm.. methinks you mean how much hassle? Very little. i get on well with the boys dad and have very little to do with the girls dad.


Okay..When can I move in then ? Very Happy


Straight to the point, gotta love that in a person!!!


I'm getting to old to beat about the bush...in more ways then one Razz

 
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02.10.2006, 09:40 quote

Anonymous

Jeggea wrote:
redoctober wrote:
When or if I decide to settle down I'd probably be happy with a woman with a couple of smallish kids. As long as she told me, and their wasn't too much baggage with a previous partner.


How about 2 smallich kids, 2 teenagers and 2 ex husbands?!!!! Confused


Honestly depends on the Woman and the kids and how much baggage.[/quote]
hmm.. methinks you mean how much hassle? Very little. i get on well with the boys dad and have very little to do with the girls dad.[/quote]

Okay..When can I move in then ? Very Happy[/quote]Bloody hell, you don't waste anytiem do you?

 
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02.10.2006, 09:44 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
redoctober wrote:
When or if I decide to settle down I'd probably be happy with a woman with a couple of smallish kids. As long as she told me, and their wasn't too much baggage with a previous partner.


How about 2 smallich kids, 2 teenagers and 2 ex husbands?!!!! Confused


Honestly depends on the Woman and the kids and how much baggage.

hmm.. methinks you mean how much hassle? Very little. i get on well with the boys dad and have very little to do with the girls dad.[/quote]

Okay..When can I move in then ? Very Happy[/quote]Bloody hell, you don't waste anytiem do you? [/quote]

Ready made family...just what I need

 
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02.10.2006, 15:01 quote

Anonymous

moldypeach wrote:
nope i tell potential people straight away, if they do a runner because of it that's not the type of person i want to be with Very Happy


same here Smile well almost i try and figure them out a bit first make sure they aint dodgy and then i tell them cos my little boys the biggest part of my life Very Happy i was nervous about telling aradon thought it might scare him off Crying or Very sad but i told him and it's all good Very Happy Embarassed

 
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02.10.2006, 15:04 quote

Anonymous

welshpetal wrote:
moldypeach wrote:
nope i tell potential people straight away, if they do a runner because of it that's not the type of person i want to be with Very Happy


same here Smile well almost i try and figure them out a bit first make sure they aint dodgy and then i tell them cos my little boys the biggest part of my life Very Happy i was nervous about telling aradon thought it might scare him off Crying or Very sad but i told him and it's all good Very Happy Embarassed


aaw, takes a fair bit to scare Aradon Very Happy Wink You'll do alright with him Petal

 
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02.10.2006, 15:12 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
welshpetal wrote:
moldypeach wrote:
nope i tell potential people straight away, if they do a runner because of it that's not the type of person i want to be with Very Happy


same here Smile well almost i try and figure them out a bit first make sure they aint dodgy and then i tell them cos my little boys the biggest part of my life Very Happy i was nervous about telling aradon thought it might scare him off Crying or Very sad but i told him and it's all good Very Happy Embarassed


aaw, takes a fair bit to scare Aradon Very Happy Wink You'll do alright with him Petal
thx red Very Happy he's a cool guy Twisted Evil just hope i dont scare him if we ever meet lol we seem to have a bit in common Smile i find it hard talking online sometimes you know when you get stumped your like "hello" and they're like "hello" and then it goes all quiet Laughing hows you today? your easy to talk to too Smile

 
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