I'm 18 and have yet to have ever actually been in a relationship. When it comes to talking to the girls I just can't really think of any good conversation topics or lines that will get me vey far. I never approach women with lines like 'Your hot drool' or the like but in general they just don't seem very interested. I hate to say it but looks are fairly important to me too though I have lowered my standards some over the years. I don't think I am shy I just find it difficult to relate to other people and generally speaking don't get invited to lots of parties, etc. though I would like to be.

Use a jedi mind trick!
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If you can't think of anything to say, you might have to face the fact that you're not a very interesting person.
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Vidi Vici Veni

I got in touch with my feminine side. She emailed me back saying if I ever contacted her again she'd call the police.

yeah thanks.

You do realise we're both joking?
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Vidi Vici Veni

I got in touch with my feminine side. She emailed me back saying if I ever contacted her again she'd call the police.

hahahaha. *high fives whysoserious*

You're not a bad looking bloke. Although you do kinda look like moss from IT crowd. Anyone else find that?

No offense no matter how good looking a person is, if you cant actually talk to a person then your not going to go far! Looks will only take a person so far! Ass it seems like your relying on your your looks, this is where you are going wrong, work on the personality and being able to talk to the opposite love!

Start socialising with work mates and learn how to have a conversation with the opposite love!

I'm wondering if you're also attracted to other quiet or shy girls which makes it even more difficult to socialise with them.

Might you be trying too hard to think of something interesting to say? whereas a better way might be to ask a girl questions where a 'yes or no' answer isn't so likely and will get her talking to you about things that it'll become easier to respond to. Hopefully she'll be interesting enough for you to have genuine questions to ask, because you really want to know.
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I think Sue makes a very valid point, which is unfortunate. You see my plan is to cripple the rest of the males species, apart from maybe a few choice flirtbox members, leaving me to take my pick of the females.
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I got in touch with my feminine side. She emailed me back saying if I ever contacted her again she'd call the police.

I guess our young man here just needs to stop thinking that he has to talk to girls any different than he would his mates.
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hmm...can't upload any new pics at the moment. What seems odd to me though is, ok, you have to talk to other girls to end up in a relationship but why is it always men that have to initiate the contact especially if I am supposedly as good looking as you all say. Anyway I don't think I rely on just good looks to get me all the way. I am also fairly extroverted and can be pretty chatty at times but I think I have to know the person/people well enough to be able to know what sort of things to talk to them about. When it comes to talking to strangers I am normally quite lost.

I reckon your age goes against you on fbx as a lot of people don't message under 20s and there are still many girls who won't make the first move, whether that's right or wrong doesn't come into it, just is the way it is.
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