hey, this is my first time i try this web, i gotta BE HONEST, im 25, i had 2 failed engagements, and i was happy being single, but now its getting just sad, the thing is, i dont drink, nor go clubbing, and most girls at this age (18-25) go clubbing, so where am i to find a date, i have no faith on websites, but here goes. i live in guildford surrey, so their aren't many girls, only in bars, should i just start drinking and go to bars every day untill som1 pays attention?

Just be yourself, dont go changing just for the sake of maybe meeting someone, it will happen at some point but it wont happen overnight, stick with it & good luck x

Maybe going to bars, where you know there are women, and not drinking alcohol may be the answer. Being sober may be enough to distinguish yourself from the other men there.

You could use the time to read a broadsheet ...

why do you need to go to the bars?go to museums or art gallerys instead...meny sober women go there...

You don't need to drink alcohol to enjoy yourself in a bar or club and I know a few people that do. But if that's not your thing then find activity groups locally that do things you do enjoy doing.

"....untill som1 pays attention?"

WTF???

You have a lot to learn.

Happy Thursday night!
I dislike clubbing and bars and decided around 6 months ago that I'd rather meet less people than keep going.
Try sports clubs, climbing, walking etc.
I think it's better to stay single longer and meet the right person, or suitable person, than be just looking for someone to give attention.

You may want to change your pic to one that doesn't look like someone is cumming on you.

Maybe he is cuming on himself, i've shot myself in the eye a few times

I'm sick and tired of being single. I been single for 9 years this january and have ony ever had 1 girl who treated me good, but that ended too. I've not even had love in 9 years either. But thats because I don't want to have love with any girl i'm not going out with. I've not even had any girls in that 9 years remnotely interested in me. But I know there's nothing wrong with me. I can be a bad boy sometimes, but I treat girls like little princesses. So personally I can't work out why i'm single either.

You just have to plou on, everyday and be as happy as you can. I'm very, very lonely being single, but i'm happy because I have 2 children. They live with their mother but I get to see them at weekends and so it makes me happy. Think about ONLY the things in life that make you happy and you'll be fine.