Should married men or women flirt on this site?
What if you are content with your partner, but just want more or something a bit more perverse. something your married partner would not hear tell of.
Is it wrong to to explore other possibilities?

I feel this may have been answered elsewhere on the forum??????

flirting is natural and a-okay in here. it helps to build confidence and sometimes excites you to the point of distraction..... it's good sexercise lol.

but please take the work out to your wife.

i cannot see her being pleased in any way if you had an affair......and i know you think you could keep it under wraps and no one would know..................... but the truth will out.

sooner or later she would find out and then there's a perfectly healthy marriage down the pan. and another person hurt over the selfish actions of their partner.

if you are having problems with your love life inside your marriage, looking elsewhere is not the answer. talking with your wife, telling her exactly what is making you unsatisfied is. and perhaps you can meet in the middle and this "perverse desire" of yours can be satisfied.

mmmmmmmmmm all food for thought. What happens if I have discussed physical side with wife, and still little response.
Surely there must be many women who just want love wit someone else without the strings attached.
Seems like everybody is getting on their moral high ground.
I am confused. What is the point in flirting if no one has plans to do anything about it?
Seems a waste of time bothering.

Right.

Discuss it with the wife.
If she gives you permission(which I highly doubt she will)...go for it. If not, learn to control yourself.

I couldnt have put it better myself laura

There's a biological imperative for the male of the species to spread his seed far and wide, like it or not, absolute monogomy is not a natural state for men with an IQ of more than 5...
I don't purport to understand the female psych enough to say whether the same is true for them or not, but in my experience (even just on this site) women are the same as men if they're not getting what they want.... they will and do look elsewhere. OK, so fair enough this may only materialise as drunken one nighters but it happens more frequently than anyone would care to admit.
I don't want to tread on the toes of what seems to be a fair bit of idealism in here but my advice is that if it feels right do it.... guage how you're feeling afterwards as to whether you've done the right thing or not... it's really the only way you're gonna find out for sure.
You've obviously married the person you want. If you're not getting everything you want, but don't want to mess up a good thing, then plan it properly and go and get it.
As somebody in here said 'the truth will out', this is also true if you're desire for something different isn't fullfilled and it sounds to me like a deep desire. If you're paranoid about ruining your marriage by getting caught but you really need to express your desire then why not pay for it? ... i know would if i wasn't such a tight fisted cleanliness freak...
Lifes to short to sit around wondering about what might have been or what things could be like, it's not good for the brain and it's not good for your marriage as it will only cause a build up of resentment within you ... go for it man , degrade yourself, cover yourself in the stench of filthy adultery, bask in it's dirty degeneracy , get it out of your system and enjoy it without reservation.