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24.06.2007, 23:33 quote

elitious
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cazzamcg wrote:
Reading through this thread girls just can't win! Sad

We are easily for going for what we want or we are our person and some guys like that!

I am confused.


so not true, same goes for guys, no matter how much care, attention and love we show, girls just run after the bad boys. but as ppl say life is a gamble you win some u lose some, sometimes, reward:risk ratio is unfair.
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01.07.2007, 09:00 quote

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Everybody reacts in different ways so there can't be any right way to do things...!

I prefer it if a girl makes it really obvious if she likes me! She doesn't have to come right up and ask me, but it is nice if she doesn't leave any doubt in my mind. I am such a coward who doesn't like to risk having his ego damaged in any way! I like to know what the answer is before I ask the question Embarassed
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01.07.2007, 10:09 quote

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jackdav wrote:
I am such a coward who doesn't like to risk having his ego damaged in any way! I like to know what the answer is before I ask the question Embarassed


I think lots of guys are cowards nowadays Jackdav..I personally have never had any difficulty in approaching a guy I have taken a liking to..the way I look at it..lifes too short to worry about rejection..why regret a 'what if'
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01.07.2007, 10:12 quote

Johna66
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i personally think no ... the reason for this is i aint getting any younger and i certainly wouldnt be offended if they did

 

01.07.2007, 11:19 quote

kizz
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Going by the majority of answers on this board.. I think I may need to change tactics.

Im shy though, so it might be too hard to change the habit of a lifetime.

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01.07.2007, 11:28 quote

Anonymous

kizz wrote:
Going by the majority of answers on this board.. I think I may need to change tactics.

Im shy though, so it might be too hard to change the habit of a lifetime.

Embarassed


Most of us are shy Kizz at times, but its always up to the man to pluck up the courage, and its hard for most people to talk to someone you like a lot.

If he doesn't contact you, contact him...you never have anything to lose Wink

Just talking in general Smile

 

01.07.2007, 11:30 quote

Johna66
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kizz wrote:
Going by the majority of answers on this board.. I think I may need to change tactics.

Im shy though, so it might be too hard to change the habit of a lifetime.

Embarassed


actually i said wrong pmsl yes maybe i should elaborate if women want to come onto blokes i see no probs with that and like kizz yes i am shy even at errrr my age Wink

 

01.07.2007, 14:37 quote

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If I've fancied a guy I've usually found it more difficult to 'be myself' when they're around, and probably make them think I'm less interested in them than anyone else Sad ........... I'm getting the eye contact now without going to pieces so maybe I can take the initiative one day, who knows :oops

I think the whole thing is more difficult as you get older as everyone always seems to assume that you have a partner already.

 

01.07.2007, 15:13 quote

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myriad wrote:
If I've fancied a guy I've usually found it more difficult to 'be myself' when they're around, and probably make them think I'm less interested in them than anyone else Sad ........... I'm getting the eye contact now without going to pieces so maybe I can take the initiative one day, who knows :oops

I think the whole thing is more difficult as you get older as everyone always seems to assume that you have a partner already.


yep sometimes as i get older i think the same thing

 

01.07.2007, 15:50 quote

minijellytot

I believe life is too short and if you like the look of someone, then just go for it. You may get rejected but surely thats better than never trying

 

01.07.2007, 16:30 quote

Anonymous

myriad wrote:
If I've fancied a guy I've usually found it more difficult to 'be myself' when they're around, and probably make them think I'm less interested in them than anyone else Sad ........... I'm getting the eye contact now without going to pieces so maybe I can take the initiative one day, who knows :oops

I think the whole thing is more difficult as you get older as everyone always seems to assume that you have a partner already.


Not sure that affects me, but I haven't been out on the pull for a while. But looking on a women's fingers for a ring is always the first thing you do,
Maybe that affects women more then men.

 

01.07.2007, 16:32 quote

minijellytot

Jeggea wrote:
myriad wrote:
If I've fancied a guy I've usually found it more difficult to 'be myself' when they're around, and probably make them think I'm less interested in them than anyone else Sad ........... I'm getting the eye contact now without going to pieces so maybe I can take the initiative one day, who knows :oops

I think the whole thing is more difficult as you get older as everyone always seems to assume that you have a partner already.


Not sure that affects me, but I haven't been out on the pull for a while. But looking on a women's fingers for a ring is always the first thing you do,
Maybe that affects women more then men.


Look for the tan lines as well where the ring should be

 

01.07.2007, 16:34 quote

Anonymous

Minijellytot wrote:
I believe life is too short and if you like the look of someone, then just go for it. You may get rejected but surely thats better than never trying


I agree....if a man likes you, he will be more then happy that you did it...and I know of a few relationships where it has worked out okay.

 

02.07.2007, 00:30 quote

elitious
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it doesn't matter who start the conversation, as long as u get some where. and there are no prices, if u like some one go for it. personaly i feel more comfortable that girl start the conversation as atleast ur some wat sure she has some interest.
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02.07.2007, 06:06 quote

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elitious wrote:
it doesn't matter who start the conversation, as long as u get some where. and there are no prices, if u like some one go for it. personaly i feel more comfortable that girl start the conversation as atleast ur some wat sure she has some interest.


That's not actually true. Some girls just talk to blokes for fun, but have absolutely no interest. I've seen that with some female friends of mine a few times.

 
 
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