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16.06.2007, 15:29 quote

MsIbiza
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irishlgirl74 wrote:
u c thats wat i would be afraid of, if i went up 2 a guy and started chatting or whatever, will he think hes in there or im easy
yea true thats what im scared of 2
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16.06.2007, 15:37 quote

irishlgirl74
irishlgirl74 Joined: 15 Jan 2007 Posts: 1444 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Down
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jus cause i chat 2 a guy or come on 2 him, it dont mean i will sleep with him, curt him ya, i may chat 2 him cause i like him, but that dont mean i will sleep with him straigh away, cause im not that type

 

16.06.2007, 15:43 quote

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MsIbiza wrote:
irishlgirl74 wrote:
u c thats wat i would be afraid of, if i went up 2 a guy and started chatting or whatever, will he think hes in there or im easy
yea true thats what im scared of 2


I don't understand why someone should think that. Just starting to talk to someone doesn't mean you're going to shag anyone. It's just conversation, nothing more and nothing less. You can still withhold kissing or sex for as long as you wish. I understand that some people might see it that way, but those people are idiots, you still have the option of not making, or rejecting any advances that they might make to take things further.

Initiating a conversation equals little more than moving the 1st pawn in a game of chess. Although I am not good at making the first move, I think it's a very silly thing to be scared of doing, because it's just making a mountain out of a mole hill.

 

16.06.2007, 15:46 quote

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irishlgirl74 wrote:
jus cause i chat 2 a guy or come on 2 him, it dont mean i will sleep with him, curt him ya, i may chat 2 him cause i like him, but that dont mean i will sleep with him straigh away, cause im not that type


I suppose it all depends on the man, how drunk you are, and what you say..also how drunk the man is. Personally I've had women say hello to me and I didn't think no worse of them.

 

16.06.2007, 17:02 quote

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I dont think there's anything wrong with a female ''coming on'' to a male....''coming on'' meaning chatting to them and saying hello... if you like the look of them! Very Happy why should it always be left for the male to do.

 

16.06.2007, 17:50 quote

irishlgirl74
irishlgirl74 Joined: 15 Jan 2007 Posts: 1444 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Down
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cheeky i love that pic, its gorg

 

16.06.2007, 17:54 quote

Anonymous

thanks .... Embarassed .. your new ones lovely too, i did say so on another thread

 

16.06.2007, 18:03 quote

irishlgirl74
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cheekyeyes wrote:
thanks .... Embarassed .. your new ones lovely too, i did say so on another thread

oh did u thanks, never saw it, but i was waitin 2 get postin under u so i could say

 

16.06.2007, 18:04 quote

Anonymous

aww thanks mrs

 

16.06.2007, 18:04 quote

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I can't go in one post these days without a mutual love-in taking place. Laughing

 

17.06.2007, 22:47 quote

Teggro
Joined: 31 May 2007 Posts: 480 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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cheekyeyes wrote:
I dont think there's anything wrong with a female ''coming on'' to a male....''coming on'' meaning chatting to them and saying hello... if you like the look of them! Very Happy why should it always be left for the male to do.


On the very occasional times, I've had lasses come on to me, to only realize it days later. It's either just me, or men are useless at noticing things.

 

18.06.2007, 23:47 quote

genhex
genhex Joined: 22 Mar 2007 Posts: 45 Location: United Kingdom, England, Nottinghamshire
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Yeah, that's true.

I've only recently noticed that a particular girl is always trying to get me alone- it seems so obvious now looking back. She's been doing it pretty much every time I've met her.

 

19.06.2007, 12:22 quote

women4me
Joined: 15 May 2007 Posts: 240 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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Please, don't worry about seeming easy. I'd think wow she really likes me and it'd take the pressure off. If i see a women giving me 'the look' , i usually go to pieces and turn into a fumbling idiot. The thought of going over to her for an introduction is off the scale. That's how hard it is for me so there must plenty of other guys that way. If you don't make the first move...it ain't going to happen.

 

24.06.2007, 21:12 quote

cazzamcg
Joined: 19 Jun 2007 Posts: 10 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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Reading through this thread girls just can't win! Sad

We are easily for going for what we want or we are our person and some guys like that!

I am confused.

 

24.06.2007, 21:12 quote

cazzamcg
Joined: 19 Jun 2007 Posts: 10 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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Reading through this thread girls just can't win! Sad

We are easily for going for what we want or we are our person and some guys like that!

I am confused.

 
 
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