Hiya i'm new to this and still not 100% sure how it all works...im not thick honestly just takes me time lol basically im looking for friends and maybe more depnding wots on offer haha

hi welcome to flirtbox hope you enjoy your visit here..

thanks lol just very confusing haha

je ust enjoy yourself a lot more of the regulas will be on in a bit.. i have only been on here 3 weeks ..you have a laff if nothing else.. and if your mad enough might recrute you to the mad hatters club...ha! ha! it's like the masons but with strait jackets....

Welcome to Flirtbox. It's alright on here. I haven't been on here long either but you will definatly make friends if nothing else.
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Hi and welcome!
If you click Home>> (LH side) you get a different menu and if you scroll down you can find Flirtbox Help. Click on that and you'll find there are loads of topics under that which cover most of the things people need to know.

What follows is a cut and paste (with some ediing) of a reply I did to bonjovi01. I know he won't mind sharing it with you.
Keep up the posts (like this one you've made) to the forums, as they appear on the home page of FB and go in Twitter, etc, so you're liable to be seen by more people. There are loads of topics, so just take your pick of any you fancy. You can also start one yourself - if you think something should be discussed or you think it would amuse people, etc. And if you see anything you don't agree with - just hop straight in - or if you agree, just add your own comments or experiences.
Don't forget to check who's been looking at your profile (Visitors on the dating side) and - if you like them - message them.
Check your 'who would like to meet me'. You might be surprised... I was! And again message or send a Want To Meet to them - if you think you might be interested.
And don't be afraid to do that - what have you got to lose?
Do some searchs for people in your area, using the Search facilities on the dating side (My Flirtbox): Quick Search and Find A Date (down the bottom on the dating side).
And keep an eye on any likely new people listing - if you like them send them a message.
You can see who's in the chatroom and who's online (on the My Flirtbox dating side). This can save you trawling thru people who registered in 1066 and haven't been back.
Basically you have to make it work for you.
Read the topics What attracts you to a profile? (see under Dating) and what puts you off about a persons profile? (see under Dating).
When you've got a photo showing and some text in About Me, you can use the topics rate the person above you (their picture) (see under Fun & Games) and THE rate the person's profile above you thread ^^ to fine-tune it.
Just don't expect anything to happen soon. Some people have come on here and had a date within a week or two. Some have been here years and haven't had even the hint of the possibility of anything happening.
I think that's enough guidance to start with?
From handsel in the Many Words Dept.
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hi am fairly new to the newer members just join in n get chatting on here see how things go. i made mates on here last time i was here few yr ago now but welcome hun x

Hi ya! I joined back in May i think and assure you as a women you will receive probs 5 times the amount of messages that men do, some will be dull, some will be overly complimentary and some will be down right pervy BUT amongst the hundreds that you will get there will always be a few that stand out! I was lucky enough to meet someone within a week of being on here, that never worked out and then have since met up with 2 other people, one i have had to bloke on here and on my phone but hey ho! and one was one of the most amazing man ive ever met, sadly after a few months it didnt work out BUT still really good friends! At the mo im not using this site to meet anyone. I personally do not reply to messages from people that im not interested in, some think this is wrong and rude but i personally see no point in replying as it always leads to endless messages asking why i and how they could change my mind. But keep with it, read through the messages, read through their profile and send a reply if you feel an attraction or if you want to know more about them! Good luck in your adventure and i hope you have lots of fun, BUT do keeps your eyes wide open as there are some strange men out there but also a few goodens!