i would like to hear from you all just how to strike up a conversation with a woman without sounding like a complete idiot.i can get enough nerve up to say hi but then i am stuck from there for words,please help me out,guys and girls.

Read their profiles and try and get something out of that.... if they havnt said much on their profiles then say so and strike up convo that way.

Or if youve seen someone posting on here that you would like to talk to then strike up a convo on what they might have posted and take it from there.

Remember one thing, their shit smells just as bad as yours does.



And if that doesn't put you off... What I mean is that they're no different to you. So as long as you don't start with, "hi, I saw you and thought you had a great pair of tits" you should be fine. Comment on the weather, the annoying queue you're both in, someone making a fool of themselves over the other side of the building so you can both laugh at them. And remember something else. Just because they don't respond in a way you'd like doesn't mean it's you. It means they're a horrible evil person inside. Or they just had more important things in their life at that time. Everyone has problems and issues no matter how big and small, it's not always a good time to strike up conversation with anyone.

thanks for your advice so far,people.i have had a diificult time in social settings doing this and i will remember this next time i go to a social event.it can't hurt to try,and what's the worst they can say,NO!

you just got to take the bulls by the horns mate, and tell them that your feeling horny and you think there a bit of hot stuff and you fancy a bit too, that should see you right, trust me i'm a love machine

i will definitely ignore bobby25's advice.that's all i need now is to get a slap in the face.it's hard enough now trying to get a date.i don't need to be labelled as a sexual preadator too.thanks ladies for the good advice and you blokes too.bobby 25 needs to grow up a bit and realize that in order to charm a woman you have to think with your head and not your privates.

oh lighten up some of you! for god sake!

hey bobby,i like a good joke like everyone else and thought your statement was humourous,but you have to realize that what you say could be determental in who you meet.some women might like the idea of shagging on the first date,but here in canada,a lot of women like to get to know you first before they consider it.i guess it is that way all around the world now.times have changed and women have more power now to make those decisions for themselves.wish me luck peeps as i try to find my true love here.

why should anyone else care if i do or say the wrong things to attract women, I don't believe for one minute that i'll meet anyone on here anyway! but i wish you the bast of luck and hope you have lots of success with the women on here!