Wouldnt say i was distressed about it though

Think what im trying to say is that most blokes I seem to meet are the type who would rather go home with some little girlie whos gonna put out straight away rather than the sensible gals like me who have more to give than just their bodies. I mean I have a good personality, a great sense of humour and can hold my own in any situation. My mate seems to think im being to picky but sorry i just aint gonna go away with the first person who asks me cos im feeling a bit unloved . To me I think its a bit of a self respect thing and maybe I have some old fashioned values but are there no men out there who respect that anymore????

Just hang on in their girly that night in shinning armour will be coming your way soon a sweep you of your feet so don't rush into anything you might regret in the future it's not that bad going without sex I should know been doing it for years ye you'll be depressed and frustrated but isn't best to wait for the right person than to through yourself at the first tom dick or harry

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I am at odds with everyon eon this thread.

I passionately believe you should go for Mr Right Now.

Ten reasons why:

(1) You cannot put your life on hold while you wait for Prince Charming

(2) If he never comes along, you've enjoyed life while you waited

(3) Mr Right Now MIGHT, in time, turn into Mr Right.

(4) Sex is a gift of Mother Nature to be enjoyed, so get on with it! Use it before you lose it, because you are only young once and are a long time dead.

(5) Practising meeting new men and getting intimate with them will help to cure you of your shyness. Then when Mr Right comes along you will be a much more confident and self-assured lady, the type that he is probably looking for.

(6) You will perfect your bedroom skills so when Mr R comes along you will knock him bandy with your techniques and enslave him forever!!!

(7) While out at a party or whatever with Mr Wrong you may meet Mr Right.

( 8 ) If you are being kept satisfied by Mr Right Now, you won't appear so needy and desperate when Mr Right Now comes along.

(9) You will have someone to dress up nicely for, keeping you in the habit of looking your best, shaving your legs (etc lol) and all that.

(10) It's a shocking waste of your beautiful self and the gift of life!

Helena