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Home >> Advice >> Mr Right?........Or Mr Right Now............???
07.09.2006, 22:22 quote
| Hugglies wrote: |
Ok..here goes.. i been single (and celebate  ) for tooooooo long I'm talking Years here people not weeks! Not only am i getting extremly frustrated (thanks god daily for her rabbit) but i'm also getting lonley  I miss cuddles!! so my question...should i continue to wait (and hope) to meet Mr Right.......or should I find myself a Mr Right Now? for the here an now...Start having some fun and stop worrying? Is it worth dating just for datings sake? |
Hope you don't mind me asking.
You say you have been celibate for years ?..is that through choice or some other reason ? Most women can get sex almost anytime they want it fairly easy.
I've also been single and celibate for years through choice mainly, although I can get sex fairly easy..
You say you are looking for Mr Right..do you know what you want, or are you confused about that ?...Is he more in your mind?.. also can you really be bothered to look for him ?
Do you enjoy dating?..because I hate it, which is a problem to me
But I understand it must be more of a problem to a young women then a man.
07.09.2006, 23:34 quote
| Hugglies wrote: |
| Ok..here goes.. i been single (and celebate ) for tooooooo long I'm talking Years here people not weeks! Not only am i getting extremly frustrated (thanks god daily for her rabbit) but i'm also getting lonley I miss cuddles!! so my question...should i continue to wait (and hope) to meet Mr Right.......or should I find myself a Mr Right Now? for the here an now...Start having some fun and stop worrying? Is it worth dating just for datings sake? |
OMG, i thought it was only me that thought like that! I've been single for over 2 years now. Not even kissed or cuddled a girl in that time so know exactly how lonely it can feel. On one hand, i regret turning away the few offers i get but at the same time i'm glad i don't get involved with someone that's obviously not looking for commitment longer than one night. On the other hand...oh don't matter.
Hell, we'd be lethal as a couple. We'd probably get arrested for creating an explosion if we ever had sex!
08.09.2006, 09:49 quote
| 53846 wrote: |
| I am really not sure about all this waiting for mister right..
how do you know who mr right is if you dont date them? surely it takes time to get to know a person..maybe they are? I might be completely wrong here, but got the feeling you have been approached lots and you have decided too quick that they arnt.. when you say mr right, are you meaning mr perfect? As this could be a very long wait as who the hell is perfect..lol |
I agree with this. You could waste your life waiting for 'the one' when there is so much fun to be had along the way.
You may wake up one day and find life has passed you by, whilst you sat waiting for this 'Mr Righht'
Get out there and make the most of things
08.09.2006, 10:54 quote
100% agree with Missme and 53846.
No-one is perfect, but there are a few imperfect people who are great fun to spend time with, and one of them may even turn out to be more than just great fun.
You need to try before you buy.
I haven't found Ms. Right yet, but I've had a lot of fun trying, and I'd like to think that quite a few of the women who were trying me out as a potential Mr. Right also enjoyed themselves, for however long it lasted.
I'm still friends with many of them, so obviously, it must have been a positive thing for both of us to remain friends, even if neither of us found our partner for life.
08.09.2006, 11:30 quote
I'm in agreement with the above also, Mr Right Now may be Mr Right in disguise, you just never know until you get to know someone.
08.09.2006, 13:39 quote
25-30 years ago a lot of my friends got married after meeting Mr and Mrs 'Right', they all used to look down on me because I never got married.
Over the last 15 years, they've all started to turn up at the pubs after splitting up with their perfect partners. They try and turn the clock back and be teenagers again, which is funny. They normally rush back into relationships again for more misery 
08.09.2006, 15:47 quote
yer go get yourself a mr right now Hugglies, get out n about and let a few chat you up n see if you like em enough to take it a step further. waiting around for a mr right is a waste of time cos what is mr right? just a set of criteria!
08.09.2006, 19:12 quote
| paulusmaximus wrote: |
| 25-30 years is a good run |
Most of the marriages only lasted on average 10-15 years, I should imagine the last few years were miserable for them. then they had problems with custody of children..sometimes it can get nasty. Rather them then me.
29.09.2006, 18:13 quote
| Hugglies wrote: |
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Because I'm really shy around new people !  , i dont know many people in London and I hardly EVER go anywhere apart from work......men aren't gonna come knocking on my door from nowhere are they And yes i wouldn't want to miss Mr Right cause i was too busy playing with Mr Right Now!! |
Aww, poor Hugglies. Believe me i know how you feel.
Send out a bunch of messages, not neccesarily just to the local hunks, any blokes. Then just have a chat, if it goes further great, if not, no big loss. Its just a bit of practice at talking to new people.
I think its done me loads of good, i could nearly go and talk to some random person on the street now.
Stu
29.09.2006, 22:14 quote
You could try theatre, or amature drama. Its a fantastic way to kick shyness and you meet loads of new people. The whole culture and teamwork going towards putting on a show is brilliant and leads to some great friendships (and relationships)
30.09.2006, 05:45 quote
| ChiefOHara wrote: |
| You could try theatre, or amature drama. Its a fantastic way to kick shyness and you meet loads of new people. The whole culture and teamwork going towards putting on a show is brilliant and leads to some great friendships (and relationships) |
Provided the only single bloke isn't your boss from work as happened to me!
Otherwise Hugz its a good idea. I have a great social life since starting amateur dramatics
30.09.2006, 09:26 quote
Awwww forsoooooth I shall tread the boards once more!! 
Its actually a great idea, I used to love Am Dram
I'll find a group local to me
Like to think there might be a tiny bit of thespian left in here somewhere!!
Gonna make more of an effort to get out and meet new people, cant keep complaining when i hardly ever go anywhere or do anything tis a mess of my own making
Hugzxx
01.10.2006, 00:39 quote
| Hugglies wrote: |
| Ok..here goes.. i been single (and celebate ) for tooooooo long I'm talking Years here people not weeks! Not only am i getting extremly frustrated (thanks god daily for her rabbit) but i'm also getting lonley I miss cuddles!! so my question...should i continue to wait (and hope) to meet Mr Right.......or should I find myself a Mr Right Now? for the here an now...Start having some fun and stop worrying? Is it worth dating just for datings sake? |
Got to say Hugglies this post sounds like it was me that wrote it.....ok its not been years more like months but hey i just wanna find someone who will take me for what i am (the bad and the good) and not think i am some type of slapper who will go home with them at their will... okay ive been there and done that in the past and im fed up with men thinking thats all that women are good for!!! I think im just waiting for Mr Right but im beginning to wonder now if he is even out there
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