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Home >> Advice >> Letting down gently
29.07.2006, 17:26 quote
OK, I'll probably sound like a bitch because of this but oh well...
About 6 weeks ago I was at a party with some mates from Chorley. One of their mates called and they asked me, as a joke, to talk to him. He was feeling a bit down and they wanted to cheer him up. I pretended I'd seen him around on the few occasions I'd been to Chorley to see my mates and found him attractive and that next time I was there we'd all go out (not planning in going there for ages.) Anyway, I'd forgotton all about it unti today when I got a text from this guy saying my mate had given him my number and when was I coming to see him. I'm not at all interested and aam stuck for how to tell him without saying the conversation we had was just for a joke.
Help!!
29.07.2006, 17:46 quote
Maybe a little white lie? E.g. Tell him you have a new bf, who is the jealous type.
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29.07.2006, 17:47 quote
ooooh....good idea...didn't think of that. I'll have to tell my mate off for giving him my number too!
29.07.2006, 17:49 quote
Are those eyes rolling in my direction Ladytrace or Aurora's? ![]()
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29.07.2006, 17:51 quote
| ladytracexx wrote: |
| oh yes.... she owes you big time!!! |
29.07.2006, 17:51 quote
lol lol ooerrrr never looked....... must be the Gin!!! 
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11.08.2006, 06:24 quote
personally i would say, while i find you a nice person. I'm not at all interested in a relationship at this time.
lying to someone isnt very nice, would you like it done to you ?
11.08.2006, 12:30 quote
It's ok....I never replied to his messages and haven't heard from him since.
11.08.2006, 21:07 quote
| Aurora27uk wrote: |
| It's ok....I never replied to his messages and haven't heard from him since. |
That's not very nice, I personally would rather be told if a girl wasn't interested, than check my e-mail every day hoping for a reply that will never come.
If he's sent you e-mails it's only fair that you reply to them.
11.08.2006, 21:42 quote
I'm kinda divided on this. You ignored a problem, and it went away. But Ed's right - ignoring him was a fairly harsh way to let someone down.
12.08.2006, 06:21 quote
I always find that honesty is the best policy no matter what the circumstances are at the time! Its saves a lot of hassle and gains respect!
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12.08.2006, 07:30 quote
OK so it was a bit harsh. But this guy never met me and we spoke once on the phone for about 3 minutes. I'm sure he's not sat at home with a broken heart!
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