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02.06.2006, 16:29 quote

Rebelcounty
Joined: 05 May 2006 Posts: 3 Location: Ireland, Cork, Glanmire
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Hey all I am recently single and looking for advice on how to approach women, I am only 28 and have been in a relationship for the last 6 years nearly and feel totally out of touch with the dating game,

If anybody could tell me, what is the norm when it comes to going out on a date with someone, cause its scaring the shit out of me

Thanks

 

02.06.2006, 17:58 quote

keera
Joined: 20 May 2005 Posts: 13 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Edinburgh
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Hey you and a hundred other new singles babes.............you are only 28 try it when your 40 its twice as hard!! best advice I could give is give ya self some time and let them come to you!!! you will know when it is time!!! keep the faith and take care. Keera x

 

02.06.2006, 19:12 quote

Anonymous

Try this site

 

03.06.2006, 11:20 quote

XQueenofScotsX
XQueenofScotsX Joined: 05 Feb 2005 Posts: 92 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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Be yourself and don't worry if you don't find love within 24 hours. There is someone out there for all of us. If u are just out a 6 yr relationship why don't u enjoy being single and then see what happens from there?

Smile

 

03.06.2006, 14:22 quote

Anonymous

im with queen of scots on this one...get out and enjoy the single life and when your least expecting it you'll find the right girl..good luck Exclamation

 

04.06.2006, 08:57 quote

Anonymous

Take it easy and just have fun,dating should not be scary,just be yourself and make the most of it:)

 

04.06.2006, 13:18 quote

Anonymous

Sweetie, since I am the oldest of the bunch i can say just be a gentleman, be yourself, honesty and you will be okay, thats all us women ask for. Communication goes along way, talk to her like she is a friend. That goes for women to.

 

04.06.2006, 22:30 quote

foxman362
Joined: 09 Apr 2005 Posts: 53 Location: USA, Florida, Mc Alpin
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Aluria wrote:
Sweetie, since I am the oldest of the bunch i can say just be a gentleman, be yourself, honesty and you will be okay, thats all us women ask for. Communication goes along way, talk to her like she is a friend. That goes for women to.


Well it doesn't take over night get sombody pm on here it takes
time to get know someone on here.
Yeah!! i use be foxman149 on matchmaker
while back i talk to a fsu college woman and she stay on the whole year writing emails back in year 2000 and did some icq chatting while back but, in 2003 i didn't hear from her since she stop talking to me.

But,I don't use matchmaker anymore becuase they charge people
for membership to email pm message to people.I haven't been talking on flirtbox since last year during 2005 becuase i try pm people on here and
i did a new update on my photo this year for 2006 i always do a once year update on my photos. Very Happy

But, hey you have to wait untill get in line and things can take time
to get right guy to hooked up on you and it can take years or months somebody will find you and it could be the right one or not.But give it time nature will do it's course in time.
I know how weather works here in florida and
by stars at night here during winter months gives a good story reason why how world works around here and i have seen planets on my dads large telscope while back and the coolest planet i like was saturn with it's tan color rings.. Cool

 

05.06.2006, 22:05 quote

Anonymous

Basically the first thing you need to do is become confident in your self. Even not so good looking people can approach women and have fun.

There are no real rules, but smiling whenever you talk to a women is good, also listening to what they have to say rather than drifting off always helps as well.

Remember you dont have to go over to a women to try and get her into bed, but more of making a friendship, dont try too hard. If you try too hard your not being yourself.

Maybe your nervous, but if you actually get talking then im sure you would be fine. Also remember to not seem to eager, hard i know but in alot of cases women like a bit of a chase as much as any man.

So remember smile, be confident, and dont be afraid of cold shoulders, if they give you the cold shoulder and you acted like you then there not for you.

First impressions count, and first kisses count more. 90% of what you say isnt coming out of your mouth so remember to be confident and your body language will come across confident.

 

06.06.2006, 10:06 quote

XQueenofScotsX
XQueenofScotsX Joined: 05 Feb 2005 Posts: 92 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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Wow Dan! You really are an agony uncle Laughing

What ^ said . . .



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06.06.2006, 10:09 quote

musiksoulchild
musiksoulchild Joined: 08 Feb 2006 Posts: 41 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Belfast
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Self Confidence is all you really need if you lack self confidence then thats when you'll messup, so get urself...out start somewhere small like a local then step by step going to bar/clubs etc Smile

Hope this helps.....
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06.06.2006, 13:15 quote

Anonymous

XQueenofScotsX wrote:
Wow Dan! You really are an agony uncle Laughing

What ^ said . . .




I do try! I like to give advice on things like this. Smile

Hope my advice helps.

 

06.06.2006, 20:33 quote

Rebelcounty
Joined: 05 May 2006 Posts: 3 Location: Ireland, Cork, Glanmire
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Thank you all for your great advice, I am taking it all to heart and feeling better that others understand,

I really appreciate ye all taking the time to read my problem and more to the point to take the time to write a response,

THANK YOU

 

06.06.2006, 21:04 quote

Anonymous

You are quite welcome, rebelcountry. Everyone needs a little boost and friendship at one time or another

 

07.06.2006, 06:48 quote

musiksoulchild
musiksoulchild Joined: 08 Feb 2006 Posts: 41 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Belfast
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Your quite welcome and hope it all works out Smile
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