Hey in one of those downer moods, you know feelin insecure, paranoid and worthless? It will pass but though i would vice on here. I duno wot it is thats wrong with me but i jus cant find a man, well i can find men but usually ones who are only after one night stands and i really dont want that, i want more. I want someone to want me and not jus for one night only. I never get approached when im out, im usually the one who approaches the guy or doesnt have the guts or enough alcohol to do it. Anyway rant over jen xxx

I feel exactly the same right now.

Its so frustrating isn't it Laura, your constantly told by friends (who are usually in relationships) that you will find someone when you least expect it, well it hasnt happened yet so when? arghhh *screams into pillow* jen

Yeah, that is bad.

Anyway, i'm sure there's nothing wrong with you

awww im sure there will be someone sometime that gets attached. Just play a little hard to get and dont sleep with them straightaway, make sure they get your number and work it slowly.

Nope there is nothing wrong with you.
Men will see a good looking woman across the room and they are afraid to approach because they hate rejection to. Eye contact and little flirting helps. I agree with Dan , Don't sleep with them, let them know that your not looking for a one night stand if they keep on trying. We always want what we can't have. I made my ex wait one month before I gave in.
He used to tell his buddies "she made we wait a month man and when i got it I wasn't about to let it go. he said " I was so busy trying to get up on it and she snuck right into my heart , you got to watch this one she is sneaky.

She snuck into my heart thats well sweet.

its like this if you dont have food for a month and someone tosses you a cracker, they will be like this 'damn thats the best damn cracker i have ever eaten, thats no ordinary cracker...right'

so same concept, deny sex for a while and when you have been going for a while, give him it, it will feel like the best damn sex ever.

some of that taken from Eddie Murphy Raw, well funny stand up.

There must be something wrong with me as well because I very rarely get approached either. One solution is to have the bottle not to wait to be approached and try going first for a change if you see someone you like.

absolutely nothing wrong with u jen ..dont worry it will happen and when u find the right guy you will just no

Ok so i feel much better now, i met someone a week ago when i was out at a club, we texted last week then he came round yesterday and is coming back 2day, and dont you worry i am not giving him sex until i know him better. He is so lovely jenny xxx

i am so happy for you jen.....hopefully we are both going to be really happy from now on

yeah thanks you two, rub it in why not...9dont you just hate happy couples when your single)

Best of luck guys, hope it all goes well for you both and your prospective partners.