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I can sympathise with you i get lots of offers get my hopes up then get blown out at the last minute i have been lied to constantly one called me a spastic! my IQ is 117! LOL. Women ruin it all by playing mindgames it's a waste of time doing it, us men will just stay away.

Women want their lives to be perfect newsflash it ain't going to happen just find someone who loves you and wants to look after you.

Apart from my friends zo and helena women have messed me about i hope there are good decent honest truthful women.

[quote="street42"]i can sympathise with you i get lots of offers get my hopes up then get blown out at the last minute i have been lied to constantly one called me a spastic! my IQ is 117 lol women ruin it all by playing mindgames it's a waste of time doing it men will stay away
Women want their lives to be perfect newsflash it ain't going to happen just find someone who loves you and wants to look after you.

Apart from my friends zo and helena women have messed me about.[/quote

So sorry to hear that street! Its funny but i have experainced simularities but obviously reversed! I some times wonder if i am a victim of my own charcator of coming across as sincere, loyal and maybe to dam caring?? i just don't understand what people these days are looking for? Maybe i just approach things all the wrong way in todays expectations??
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Well Trace there are a lot of mind players of both sexes out yhere! I too have been insulted! My exes favorite was "you don't earn enough to keep me in the style i want to be accustomed too"! this was depite the fact that i worked 7 days a week! another told me i was mentally retarded! my IQ is 138! another kept telling me i was sick in the head becaused if we rowed i didnt behave like an animal! I'm quite sure that the girls out there as well as the guys all have tales of equally disparaging remarks which are designed to make you feel inadequate!!!??
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I do find it rather alarming that some people treats others in this manor! We are all human beings with feelings and i know that the mental and emotional damage that i have endured will take time to recover if ever?
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I dont Know, How do you find decent, where do you start Looking, Im Not into clubing or Pubbing, Love my music and been creative, But I tend to go for the same type of woman, I am my own worse enemy, lol
Do all women have a hidden agenda, or are they out for blood due to past experieance?????

Experience has taught me that their is a lot of bitterness left in people from their past experiences. I still feel a hurt from some of my own hurts! I hope ihave learnt lessons from them and that i am a better person. I treat people as i would like them to treat me.
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i agree with you eccles... to become a better person and learn from mistakes you need to experiance them first. I have learnt so much over the last ten years... and hopefully i am a darn site better person for it!
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I have been Looking for A real down to earth woman for a while now and it has occoured to me, are ye all in one Basket Now, I Hope not, Maybe im looking in the wrong places, I don`t Know, Maybe my expectation are too high, hardly. Maybe im looking too hard, who knows, where do you find a woman thats not a gold digger, not all into them selfs that injoys the simple things in lofe, that can have an open conversation with out ripping it appart every second word???????????????? ANY HELP PLEASE

Trace, Dave and Your Man; anyone else! I have been told that i look to hard before talk and that i'm a deep thinker! I have been solo now for 8 years, In that time i have met only 3 ladies i felt i wanted a future with! Each time just as we began settling bingo a change would occur! insults would start, remarks would be made, hanky panky would fly out the window! there would be subtle and obvious changes. It always affected me badly but the signals were there " gotta move on! adapting afterwards has become harder as i get older!

Maybe im too old fashioned but i now have a built in alarm for the bunny boilers and thrill seekers! Also i find i can spot someone with hang ups a mile off! I dont wish to sit listening to tales of how they anihilated their exes! I'm an exe too! Nuff said! Nor do i wish to be goaded by caustic remarks? do i have to behave like an animal to be considered as a suitable partner? Or mess someone around? I can be a bad boy in the right context! But definitely not an all over bad boy?

Ladies please accept i have written this as a male of our species so please read it and replace male with female because i'm sure you have similar experiences if not exactly the same!

Apologies for the rant but the last 1o days are starting to grind me down a bit
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[quote="eccles"]Trace, Dave and Your Man; anyone else! I have been told that i look to hard before talk and that i'm a deep thinker! I have been solo now for 8 years, In that time i have met only 3 ladies i felt i wanted a future with! Each time just as we began settling bingo a change would occur! insults would start, remarks would be made, hanky panky would fly out the window! there would be subtle and obvious changes. It always affected me badly but the signals were there " gotta move on! adapting afterwards has become harder as i get older!

Maybe im too old fashioned but i now have a built in alarm for the bunny boilers and thrill seekers! Also i find i can spot someone with hang ups a mile off! I dont wish to sit listening to tales of how they anihilated their exes! I'm an exe too! Nuff said! Nor do i wish to be goaded by caustic remarks? do i have to behave like an animal to be considered as a suitable partner? Or mess someone around? I can be a bad boy in the right context! But definitely not an all over bad boy?

Ladies please accept i have written this as a male of our species so please read it and replace male with female because i'm sure you have similar experiences if not exactly the same!

Apologies for the rant but the last 1o days are starting to grind me down a bit [/quot

You need a hug!
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Thankyou Trace
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you are welcome... i think i will come back as a cat in the next life! You know ... pampered puss and all that! By far much less hassle than this relationship poop!
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