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28.08.2006, 17:14 quote
Danni you are miles and miles from being pig ugly,, god i think your picture is amazing,
i do of course have a lot of sympathy for you in so far as ppl do run when the mere mention of a child comes into it,
i myslef have 2 kids, and they both live with me full time,
and its my experience that when i drop thei "bombshell" on dates the
date goes astray and phone calls are never returned,
as far as i am concerned these ppl arent worth the effort,, a real man
who loves you for who you are will come along and most likely when you dont expect it.,
so have faith be yourself and you are beautiful,,
by the way i have enjoyed reading many threads here and you totally come across as a sensitive caring wamr human being,,be proud of that
xxxx
28.08.2006, 18:13 quote
| danni82 wrote: |
| well im begining to wonder if i just have bad luck or if i actually am destined to remain single for the rest of my life.
im not that type of girl. is it too much to ask, to ask to meet a nice normal guy who wants me for me and not run a mile when they find out i have a son. geeze its not like im looking for a dad for him he has one. is it really that big a deal???? |
I can empathise Danni. i have 4 beautiful children (only the 2 eldest live with me). Finding someone with all the right qualities who will also accept that you have children too is not easy.
28.08.2006, 21:54 quote
I messaged you, but not for the whole love thing. just to meet up for a chat, however when you replied it didn't show up on here...
told me i had a mail but i couldn't find it.
Anyhow, back to the point. i wouldn't worry, you are not a bad looking lass, far far from it, and you are still young at the end of the day, i would just enjoy being with your little lad, and see what happens, there is nothing wrong with being single, enjoy it whilst you can.
06.09.2006, 13:47 quote
ok well im on dial up
so not got the patience to read the whole thread but u defo aint ugly danni
and as for them doing a runner when they find out u got a kid then look at it as there loss,they wouldnt have been worth bothering about in the first place.ive got 2 kids as well though they dont stay with me i see them on my weekends off,doesnt mean i aint got time to see sumone else but had females without kids run when they found out bout the kids..anyway hang in there danni your 'sumone special' will come along and when he does can u see if hes got a single sister for me
P.S.hows the job going?
06.09.2006, 18:00 quote
| ayrshireguy wrote: |
| ok well im on dial up P.S.hows the job going? |
Thank you sweetie. i deffo will look for a guy with a single sister lol.
yeah job is going really well thank you hows things with you?
06.09.2006, 18:09 quote
It's mad isn't it all the girls get is pervo messages by the bucketload and us guys get hardly any messages at all. I going to start sending pervo messages to self.
Also Danni you should my friend kirsten was in same position as you and just recently found somone on a computer games forum as she mostly plays xbox when baby as sleeping. Good things can happen.
06.09.2006, 22:11 quote
Thank you sweetie. i deffo will look for a guy with a single sister lol.
yeah job is going really well thank you hows things with you?[/quote]
no probs anytime and glad to hear jobs going well..things with me are good,jobs going great and moved into my new flat a cpl of weeks ago and its coming along
29.09.2006, 20:13 quote
| danni82 wrote: |
| well im begining to wonder if i just have bad luck or if i actually am destined to remain single for the rest of my life.
Well its doing my head in now. im a 24 year old woman and not pig ugly well i dont think anyway. so why is it i am still single after 2 years?? I have met one or 2 great people one from this site and one from another and neither of them turned into anything but to be honest i knida knew they were not looking for anything more than friends. but why is it the only guys that mail me or speak to me are either after love or me to be naughty on web cam??? im not that type of girl. is it too much to ask, to ask to meet a nice normal guy who wants me for me and not run a mile when they find out i have a son. geeze its not like im looking for a dad for him he has one. is it really that big a deal???? |
Just offering this as a suggestion in case you hadn't thought of it, maybe if you specifically look out for single dads as they might not "run a mile".
I did a bit off googling and came up with a few possible places specifically for single parents:
http://www.single-parent-connection.co.uk/
http://www.singleparentlove.com/
http://www.parentsalready.com/
Its just gonna be easier for a bloke that has had kids (indirectly of cause :p) to understand things.
I appoligise if you had already tried this and still been unlucky.
Wish you well.
Stu
29.09.2006, 22:11 quote
I can't really say anything that hasn't been said already, Im just posting as an excuse to tell you your gorgeous is all
30.09.2006, 06:23 quote
Danielle hun, hopefully now both our luck has changed!
Ok, we live some miles apart, but we have discussed that hun.
Now, we both just need our days off at work to tally then we can get to meeting each other!!!
30.09.2006, 06:26 quote
Wow you two......looks like this post should be in flirtbox meetups...
Good luck 
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01.10.2006, 14:34 quote
You ain't ugly dear maybe because you look so stunning men are finding it a bit off putting that an attractive girl like yourself will have nothing to do with them just look at me been single for years now and probably never get anyone but you you'll see someone will come a long and wisk you of your feet and before you know it the wedding will all be arranged good luck looking and keep your head held high
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