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28.09.2006, 18:27 quote

ChiefOHara
ChiefOHara Joined: 11 Feb 2006 Posts: 2853 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork
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Well to be honest with you ladytracyx your a good person and a excellent healthcare worker then in that case, there are a lot of people who consider that their perceived status (self or otherwise) and role in society makes them superior to the normal person becuase of their work, or employment.

I've had run ins with health care workers for the physically and mentally disabled because they tried a holier than thou attitude on me when i was doing drama classes for those in their care.

The same with teachers/doctors/soldiers/guards/nuns/priests. Some people have their ego set up in the way that they have to step on others to validate their self worth. Why they have to i have no idea, but it gets right up my nose.

 

28.09.2006, 18:44 quote

ladytracexx
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Thank you for your compliment.... that means alot to me. Yes you are right i do work in the care sector... I am an Officer in a day Centre for people with severe learning difficulties and complex needs.... Hence my acceptance for others. You know all i ever want to do is just put smile on someone's face! Even if only brief.... then that is my job well done.
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28.09.2006, 18:51 quote

ChiefOHara
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ladytracexx wrote:
Thank you for your compliment.... that means alot to me. Yes you are right i do work in the care sector... I am an Officer in a day Centre for people with severe learning difficulties and complex needs.... Hence my acceptance for others. You know all i ever want to do is just put smile on someone's face! Even if only brief.... then that is my job well done.


Move to Ireland then please........ Too many workers here who think they are looking after slabs of meat.

Im not being fair, there are good people here too, but i meant my compliment. You have a decent and aware nature thats essential to your work. Im glad your a healthcare officer

 

28.09.2006, 19:25 quote

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28.09.2006, 20:07 quote

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same here trace...i did not think i was being self righteous at all...i spoke of some one else who has a disablity and how he lives life..i spoke of not matter what crap you have on u, i spoke of if people are unhappy with themselves how can they make others happy...now if that is being self righteous i dont know...im telling u these forums are getting so petty and bullshitty its beyond me...and as to u Skraug, i dont give a shit whether u speak to me or give me hell..u asked for opinions and i was honest as to the way i saw u coming off on this thread.....beleive me i have been around on here and in life alot longer than u have buddy boy..

 

28.09.2006, 20:13 quote

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Faith.... you and have been here since day 1. You have always been honest with your replys ...whether it has been what we want to here or not? You are a valued member of the forums.... and i for one value your imput and advise given. Do not ever change. I love you as others do xxxxxxxxx
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28.09.2006, 20:16 quote

ChiefOHara
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lol

I mean this as a compliment Aluria, but your very american ..... "Buddy boy"

Now thats how hero's talk!

Brillant! Very Happy

 

28.09.2006, 20:19 quote

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ChiefOHara wrote:
lol

I mean this as a compliment Aluria, but your very american ..... "Buddy boy"

Now thats how hero's talk!

Brillant! Very Happy
Thanks Chief sweetie...I love being an american and as everyone knows on here am very bold and will definately speak my mind...oh and btw from being around all the BLOODY brits..i have picked up some other lingo haha

 

28.09.2006, 20:22 quote

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Aluria wrote:
same here trace...i did not think i was being self righteous at all...i spoke of some one else who has a disablity and how he lives life..i spoke of not matter what crap you have on u, i spoke of if people are unhappy with themselves how can they make others happy...now if that is being self righteous i dont know...im telling u these forums are getting so petty and bullshitty its beyond me...and as to u Skraug, i dont give a shit whether u speak to me or give me hell..u asked for opinions and i was honest as to the way i saw u coming off on this thread.....beleive me i have been around on here and in life alot longer than u have buddy boy..


I like and respect your straight talking manner Aluria and I'm shocked at SK's reaction to you. He asked for honest opinions. If a person can't handle the answer, they shouldn't ask the question!!

You go girl!!

 

28.09.2006, 21:12 quote

skrauq5
Joined: 20 Sep 2006 Posts: 30 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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moralistic holier than thou yank sod off.
how the hell can you judge me when you dont know me so you cant say im unhappy with myself im just brassed off with my situation or arent i allowed to be that ?!m not the same as your wonderful pal that your besotted with.
with whom you seem to set as the standard that you judge others too.
And yes you are self righteous.

 

28.09.2006, 21:13 quote

skrauq5
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and as for you redoctober that right stick up for you nasty mate

 

28.09.2006, 21:25 quote

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skrauq5 wrote:
and as for you redoctober that right stick up for you nasty mate


You know nothing about me or my background or my situation.

In other forums I have been on, there's a name for people like you. It's called 'trolling'. I believe you are 'troll' and your only desire here is to upset people. It won't work. I wash my hands of you.

 

28.09.2006, 21:36 quote

Anonymous

Sorry, this thread has kind of got out of hands.

Pipe down or i'll either lock it or delete it. Thanks.

 

29.09.2006, 04:58 quote

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skrauq5 wrote:
and as for you redoctober that right stick up for you nasty mate


Nobodies been nasty to you mate. I agree with a lot of what you have said. But people have given you some advice, and told you about their experiences, there's no need for you to get abusive. If that's the only reason you came on here then go away. If some people have posted things you don't like, that's the way message boards/forums work, argue with them in a civil way.

I agree with a lot of what you have posted, but you seem hell bent on blaming others for your problems. I have had problems getting work for five years, and I know that most people look down on MEN that are unemployed. Personally I'm doing the best I can to rectify the problem. Maybe you arn't in the position to do that.

Some regulars on the board have had big problems, I'm fortunate that I haven't [little problems only in comparison], and I'm only on here to chat. If you use this message board in the right way it may well help you with some of your issues. Seems to me your number one problem is your lack of social skills, and without them you have no chance of meeting the person you are looking for and desire. This board will definitely help you with that problem, providing you want help.

There are a lot of men that have been disappointed since they have joined this site because of lack of replies, and it does seem to me men are in the shop window for women to look at and cast away at a whim, the only way that might change is if about 100,000 women joined up. I suspect there are a lot of lonely, frustrated women that don't even know about these sites because they don't have access to computers. Obviously there are women that are disappointed with this site as well, for various reasons. But as i say, your attitude wont help you IMO.

 

29.09.2006, 05:19 quote

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flowerangelaura wrote:
Sorry, this thread has kind of got out of hands.

Pipe down or i'll either lock it or delete it. Thanks.


Hi Laura

I think Jeggea has made some good points in his last post, but I think to try and bring back some harmony in here, if I may be so bold to say, locking this thread might be a good start to restoring the forum as it use to be.

 
 
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