Maybe i do need too chill......
But aluria i have been in the same situation as your for far longer than you and from experience i have met alot of shallow people both online and in the real world and if your male and no matter the reason your unemployed for as soon as you mention it to a lady she disappears or never speaks to you again so perhaps i have a reason to be cynical.
so being honest although supposely a good thing seems also to be a log around my neck.

I have a friend in another state, that has a bullet next to his spine...he is going to school, working the little work he can, he is only 26 and very goodlooking...yes he has the same problem about women seeing him in his disabled situation, but he is not as cynical as you...he makes life as enjoyable as can be, takes it one day at a time...and yes to be blunt if he was older we would be closer than just friends cuz of his personality and outlook on life....reading your posts would turn me off if i lived there, its like you are trying to turn people away or just pity u...start posting on other threads and make someone else happy...you can not have friends, lovers or whatever until u are happy with yourself..as one of the moderators say "smile and the world smiles with you" and look at my little statement...live life as u would want life to treat you....Paul2004 asked me once how i can always smile and be happy with all the crap in my life...i replied why should i bring someone else into my misery, i try to make people happy and if they want to enjoy in that and be my friend, lover or whatever then so be it....

fair enough

I will post again on this forum but as im not getting a striaght answer i consider it pointless to carry on with this discussion.
Aluria please dont speak to me again next time i will not keep my mouth shut .
thanks to you other people.

If you can't handle other peoples opinions and views, don't ask for them.

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I can handle other peoples views flower that person i refered to just was so rather nasty in her reply

Smiling in your pic might help.

As for the unemployed thing, Im an actor. Pretty much viewed as the same thing except i have delusions of grandeur. No sense in being bitter about it, its not going to change it. Women like money and security. Its a fact, we both have to deal with it.

Also take it easy. RedOctober and Aluria didn't post cause they enjoy having goes at people, they tried to help. Aluria gave you an honest answer and some solid advice. Whether you take it onboard or not is your business, but telling her never to speak to you again doesn't change the truth in her words.

as for sorting myself i am im looking for work ,im reducateing myself and trying to get a social life but im getting kicked at every turn so im entitled to get pissed off now and again and that includes being brassed off at self righteous people.
what am i supposed to be happy all the time eh?
you try being happy 24/7 when u see people putting less effort into bettering themselves than me and getting on in life
and no i dont want pity just a lucky break now and then

There's a phrase i like

He knows the price of everything, and the value of nothing.

Money's important, but your wage packet isn't an indication of your character. Too many people make immediate judgements that way, and its to everyones detriment.