I can emphasise wiv the nil replies but guys look at the whos on line bit we out number the girls! Both sexs are prob equally guilty of signing up and loosing the path to the site! Danni if i wasn't so old i'd message you 50 times aday! But would you replie to a rusty old codger? I try to be sensible when I message peeps! perhaps a little box where you could add your personal age preferences! cuts the crap out or even a way of stopping the porn merchants! Lets be honest theres a right time and place for swapping hot messages and pics and that comes down to the two people concerned LOL Danni your a 100% pure babe.

My record was 33 messages in a day... 20 from new people

Aluria, you are everywhere. Have you written any poetry yet. I have not seen your work there, yet.

Find out what someone is feeling as they sit silently in the dark, alone, peering out a window at a lonely empty street below.
Read a persons thoughts in prose and need never more to ask why the tears.

Fate works in all, and all you need do is have the courage to ask.

Love ya,
Thomas

OK, are we done now?

Love ya,
Thomas

Yes bantering is a lovely passtime in any relationship, key word is relationship. I have never attempted to dominate any post and going back to most of my contributions find an attempt to provide a bit of information that might be helpful in developing understanding of why people are the way they are.

I am interested in reactions, yes, as it seems you are also. Reactions are why everyone is here. I have no agenda but seems you might. I am not sure I want to find out what it is.

I find so far I am amidst a group of people living in a far far off land beyond my reach, obstructed by a woman of a more local venue interested in evaluating others motivation. We use to call such an older overseer a dorm mother back in college. The title seemed to give her privilage to walk in on anyone at any time with an accompanying comment that only mislead her questionable reasoning for being intrusive at all.

The lesson there was that people are going to assume in error and accuse by assumption. There is no avoiding this type of insult so just hold up and wait for the annoyance to pass. If you find me annoying it will pass, or I will. But all you will accomplish by feeding my attention without content is to get long winded replies to comments that make no effort to add insight to a problem or potential remedy to a problem.

Aluria, thank you for ALL the eMail but I have no time for the length. Since you provide no information, rather find me an added outlet for your mailing list I must decline your efforts.

For some of the others that find me offensive, take a look in the mirror because you are too comfortable here with a daily diet of familiar friends use to your complexities.

For some others I have great affection, not because I know you, I don't; but because I know what kind people your are by what you are interested in and how you treat others.

Have to go now, tata.

Love ya,
Thomas

OK back again, bad penny shows up when least expected .... and all that rubbish. I don't have a computer, library is so kind to provide public conveyance.

Aluria, I make assumption also, sometimes I need to choose a direction when none is obvious. I also try to provide many alternative questions in my posts. The reason is that it shows priority in which question you choose to answer and which you ignore. Seldom will anyone answer all the questions, except me. They get submerged in content and emotion over one area. These are the areas of interest and the areas I aim for. You people wanting to make a marriage out of strangers best get good at catering to what people are most interested in.

Everyone is interested in sex, everyone. But some customs are more conservative and require covertness in revealing such interests. I venture to say beside Japan the U.S. is one of the most covert regarding sexual expression especially in public. I wonder about China but they are Communist and have no say in most any matter in a public forum. I am sad for that and would be close to death if restrained with such political weight.

Every word you write should provide insight into who you are, it will without you even knowing it, so is better to make your comments mean something.

OK, I am finished. This is how I BANTER.

Wow, I tjink we should set a pole...

Are forum users here just because we do not PMed or replied to...

I know my experiance...

Wx

People reply to me...I guess i'm lucky or something.

ok last post, and i know this is not the place it should be.
My dear Thomas, i reply to all posts except maybe music, and if you had bother reading all the posts you would have realized that, to say what you said about me being like a dorm mother was out of line. i have been friends, have stuck up for u and only tried to understand u, never wanting anything else as i had said before to you. you started the rudeness to people and i just warned u that if it kept up and got nastier the posts would be closed. you can think all you want about me, i really do not care, because i see now that you are the rude person that u first started out to be.
i am sorry moderator to use this space for my message, but again it will be my last, i will not take that kind of abuse from no one..

Just out of curiosity, does anyone know the Male to Female Ratio on this site?
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"There comes a time when you look into the mirror and you realize that what you see is all that you'll ever be. Then you accept it... or you kill yourself. Or you stop looking into mirrors."
- Londo Mollari, Babylon 5

A better question might be active male to active female ratio...

Defining active though...well there is the last logged in date...