Well ive sent about 30 messages to different girls and everytimei dont get a reply. I am nice in the messages i write something like this.

"Hey, im ryan i have been looking over your bio and you seem nice, my interest are - "blah blah blah". Do you want to chat on msn if so add me ""****@****.**", If not please do reply. bye!x"

What is wrong? are you all just ignorant and looking for looks or what

Happens to the best of us mate, dont worry about it, one day someone will have the sense to reply and find out more about you.

Try injecting some humour in your messages, usually works well for me, your message does seem a little formal and pre-planned. Pick out something in their profile and make a joke about it.

Good luck.

Most girls get 50 (some get hundreds) messages a day, so they can` t be expected to reply to everyone.

wow 50 messages aday!! i wish i was a girl i aint had any mind u only been a member like 2 days hehe. jubei it was a bit silly saying girls are ignorant on a dating forum!! but yer like morillo said try add humour. u need to make them intrested in you! atm u aint really giving them alot of ur personaltiy ( atleast i hope u aint) in ur messages so all they have to go on is looks mayb??

I usually always reply to posts unless it is very suggestive, and if they basically say what u did, i reply, what on my profile did u like and i dont msg anyone until i have chatted here a few times. I agree with the other reply, just be yourself and say "hey wow u like a certain author what did u think about this book" something like that, i shows u really did read profile and u are interested, you can always end it by saying " hope to chat with u soon, ryan." be patient she will come.

i know i can get very motherly tooo

I always try to reply to all massages...... but sometimes i can never rememeber id i have already sent a replyor not?? HENCE a need of a sent message box!

Haaa haaa aaahhaaaa, Might start by refraining from using words like "ignorant" even though it might be accurate.

You sent out only 30 and you are complaining already? You are not ambitious enough....

Make up a web page all about yourself telling everything you want women to know aboout yourself. Don't use any of these forum profile pages, make your own.
Then make a standard introduction and keep a copy of it.
Next get a million female email addresses. Cut and paste your introduction with your profile link and send them out.
Sit back and wait for the replies.

Only problem is although you are no longer wasting time, you might still wait five years before getting a reply.

Oh, yes, don't let any of these women know you are sending out replicas. Use BB not CC and make sure of accuracy by sending a copy to yourself.

Love ya,
Thomas

Thomas you sneak!! haha... good idea tho... but i think a girl can always tell when a msg is bulk stuff. well.... i can.

about the "ignorance" issue... ignorance means "not knowledgeable" so if ur gonna insult em get it right lol. its arrogance you're talking about. and no i dont think us girls are arrogant at all... sometimes i check my emails and am too tired/busy/doing something else with the kids and dont have time to reply so i say oh i'll do it later... and sometimes i dont get around to it later.
inject humor, and genuine interest and dont make it seem like you're just emailing fishing for a reply.
good luck.

i wouldnt worry mate, ive sent alot got maybe 3 replys, tryed talking to them but it was like pulling teeth, i dont really bother anymore.

ive come to the conclusion that alot of girls and maybe men either signed up cos it was free and they will sign up to anything or are on here purely as an ego boost to see how many msg they get.

I dont get 50 msgs a day either

I know that it bothers me when someone brings up msn in their first message to me. I like to send some messages, get to know them a bit, see if there's any interest there before I go the msn route. Otherwise I end up with a bunch of people on my msn who I never talk to and who are like "How do I know you?"

And I don't get anywhere close to 50 messages a day either.

I get 50 messages a day...usually off the same person, should I be concerned Ive got a stalker and we aint talking erections either....

pfffft 50 a day. im lucky if i get one or two lol