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20.06.2006, 09:22 quote

wyche85
wyche85 Joined: 24 May 2006 Posts: 53 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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I met a girl from the net not long ago, she is a really nice person and all, but she is not my type...
and I know she likes me alot....
she even called me her bf, but i never even asked her out?????
we went to see "Fast and the Furious: Tokyo Drift"... it's 100% cool movie, a must see!!!!
I even paid for the film and everything, plus popcorn...
she did not look that grateful for me paying for everything...
and she wants to see me on wednesday...
she is really short, and i mean short.. i'm 6"3... and she was about 4ft or so... I did not know she was that sort in person...
she is 20, birthday in november,
i'm now 21, from yesterday Very Happy
I did see alot of other couples taking the mick out of me thinking i;m a cradle snatcher or something becasue of the hight gap and stuff???
what shal I do???
she wants to meet me on wednesday and go for Pizza, but I blown my wallet though the roof, after all my birthday celebrations, and she is not really my type Sad

 

20.06.2006, 11:05 quote

Anonymous

If you dont fancy her then you need to be honest with her. Just be nice about it. Tell her that you had a lovely time with her but you did not feel any chemistry and do not wish to persue a relationship with her. but would like to remain friends.
Yeah she may be pissed to start off but once she has calmed down she will respect you for your honesty, and could end up with a good friend out of it.

 

20.06.2006, 15:03 quote

PrincessTamz
PrincessTamz Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 470 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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Couldnt agree with you more Danni.

We've always said all along on here honesty is the best policy!

 

20.06.2006, 15:49 quote

jenmck

Jus let her know you dont click, no point stringing her along. Much easier that way, agree with Danni and Princes Tamz! About the height thing, im 4ft 11 and I know that it can put guys off, but its the same with me and guys who are 6ft, its jus a bit weird. I once had a thing for someone who was 6ft 10 if he was shorter it wud have gone further......is that sad, i jus didnt want the akwardness of going out and him having to bend in half to talk or kiss me. If you do actually like her deep down and its the height thats affecting how you feel maybe your stronger than me to look past it. What a rant anyway hope it sorta helps jenny x

 

20.06.2006, 15:53 quote

Anonymous

Worst thing you could do is play her along, especially paying for things. You can always meet up with her as friends. But explain thats all it will be. Unless you are falling for her but you dont fancy her? Because i sense that a little bit.

 

21.06.2006, 18:43 quote

ardiani
Joined: 16 Mar 2006 Posts: 28 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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As Danni already said it pal. honesty is the best policy, draging things along never works for anyone. Do not feel obliged and dont spend money on people you just meet, lol. On the other hand girls are tricky to "read" some say thanks and some not ( maybe will thank you later, more than you expect Wink ) that it might not mean that they are ungrateful, just playing it Cool. It not an easy balance to find, you`ll learn how to spot a digger from a good girl all it takes is practice... & lots of it lol.

The only advice I`ll give ya is: keep half of your weekly budget at home before you go out, always, this way you cant spent what you dont have it worked for me when I was at your age...lol.
So you play it Cool too. Other chances will come along..sleep on it and let us know how did you decide...we`d love to know
Wink

 
 
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