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01.04.2007, 10:06 quote

Anonymous

SynchPedro86 wrote:
Seriously, no one in this world is ever gonna want to date me. I've been here like half a year now (despite my ranking) and not one user has bothered to reply to me. Perhaps my picture is just too lame. Confused


Are you sure youtr settings are right??
I find it hard to believe that no one has replied, check your setting as you may have blocked from recieving messages from woman.

 

01.04.2007, 11:40 quote

wyche85
wyche85 Joined: 24 May 2006 Posts: 53 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Quote:
Are you sure youtr settings are right??
I find it hard to believe that no one has replied, check your setting as you may have blocked from recieving messages from woman.


I had that problem when i joined, then after i sorted the settings, I got some replies.

I'm having a reply problem on myspace. but I find the girls that do blank me messages, reply afew days or even weeks later,
it's just that some people can't get online alot if thier not a PC owner,
or if they have hot pics they will get 100's of replies from boys so it's hard becasue it's like a job aplication, they will only pic out some from a long list to reply to, does not mean there is anything wrong with your pics..

If you want to get the girl you like's attention in only 2 seconds, then go talk to one in person, like a bar, club, coffie shop, ec.t

I don't mind surfing the web for a date
but I mainly go out in person

 

02.04.2007, 03:25 quote

Anonymous

There's a user called boxoftears here. I met her in person before she registered here, and my experience was not a good one.

But that's between us. Confused

 

03.04.2007, 09:46 quote

Anonymous

hmmm I got a reply on the first day i was here without even having a pic lol

might also wanna check their last login time to make sure they aren't inactive etc.

I dont generally JUST go for the hottest girls either. I find average girls that attract my personal taste as opposed to EVERYONES taste =P They can be just as attractive to me ^_^

 

03.04.2007, 09:48 quote

Anonymous

VashStampede wrote:
hmmm I got a reply on the first day i was here without even having a pic lol

might also wanna check their last login time to make sure they aren't inactive etc.

I dont generally JUST go for the hottest girls either. I find average girls that attract my personal taste as opposed to EVERYONES taste =P They can be just as attractive to me ^_^


Glad to hear it Wink

Welcome to the boards Vash

 

14.04.2007, 13:36 quote

sodiumbadams

well actually i think he really shuld giv up on this site or just dont bet on it. leave tha site active but go out nd try sumthin else....

 

15.04.2007, 10:22 quote

doctorfaust
Joined: 05 Apr 2007 Posts: 508 Location: USA, Massachusetts, Cambridge
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Are you sure youtr settings are right??
I find it hard to believe that no one has replied, check your setting as you may have blocked from recieving messages from woman. [/quote]

HOLY CRAP! I hadn't gotten a single response despite >80 views, and I just checked my settings after reading this and I was blocking women! Why, if my profile is "man seeking woman" would my default settings block women? Anyway, I changed it so if you tried to respond, please try again!

 

15.04.2007, 11:22 quote

Anonymous

just dont lose hope.

 

15.04.2007, 12:55 quote

Anonymous

doctorfaust wrote:
Are you sure youtr settings are right??
I find it hard to believe that no one has replied, check your setting as you may have blocked from recieving messages from woman.


HOLY CRAP! I hadn't gotten a single response despite >80 views, and I just checked my settings after reading this and I was blocking women! Why, if my profile is "man seeking woman" would my default settings block women? Anyway, I changed it so if you tried to respond, please try again![/quote]


argh so those million messages i sent you have got lost somewhere!! Crying or Very sad

 

15.04.2007, 13:20 quote

doctorfaust
Joined: 05 Apr 2007 Posts: 508 Location: USA, Massachusetts, Cambridge
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argh so those million messages i sent you have got lost somewhere!! Crying or Very sad[/quote]

I wonder how many other hot women have your level of disappointment...

 

18.05.2007, 22:14 quote

imoneofthem

wyche85 wrote:
Quote:
Are you sure youtr settings are right??
I find it hard to believe that no one has replied, check your setting as you may have blocked from recieving messages from woman.


I had that problem when i joined, then after i sorted the settings, I got some replies.

I'm having a reply problem on myspace. but I find the girls that do blank me messages, reply afew days or even weeks later,
it's just that some people can't get online alot if thier not a PC owner,
or if they have hot pics they will get 100's of replies from boys so it's hard becasue it's like a job aplication, they will only pic out some from a long list to reply to, does not mean there is anything wrong with your pics..

If you want to get the girl you like's attention in only 2 seconds, then go talk to one in person, like a bar, club, coffie shop, ec.t

I don't mind surfing the web for a date
but I mainly go out in person


Wyche is right.
I also believe that you are striving to achieve a relationship. You need to control this need and start from square 1 which is to make female friends and hang out with them. From there things devellop

 

28.05.2007, 10:34 quote

Anonymous

Also if I receive an original message (not random as in trying to be too querky) or one that is written and spelt well then I will always reply. But I get loads of "hi.how r u" messages. They might as well say "you have a pulse fancy a chat, I can't be bothered to put any more effort in at this stage".

 

09.06.2007, 09:42 quote

samatron
samatron Joined: 24 May 2007 Posts: 219 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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SynchPedro86 wrote:
Seriously, no one in this world is ever gonna want to date me. I've been here like half a year now (despite my ranking) and not one user has bothered to reply to me. Perhaps my picture is just too lame. Confused


Hope you don't mind some honesty here!
Your profile has you down as an unemployed football fan who likes Duran Duran, Bon Jovi, Prince, Sade and Queen.
While I can relate to many of these ideas from my own personal experience, I think putting them in your profile does have the effect of making you the antithesis of what most women are probably looking for!

Just for the record, I get replies, but I still haven't

 

09.06.2007, 21:21 quote

Anonymous

TinkerLou wrote:
SynchPedro86 wrote:
Seriously, no one in this world is ever gonna want to date me. I've been here like half a year now (despite my ranking) and not one user has bothered to reply to me. Perhaps my picture is just too lame. Confused


Are you sure youtr settings are right??
I find it hard to believe that no one has replied, check your setting as you may have blocked from recieving messages from woman.

Good job I read this thread! My settings were set to receiving messages from men only! Aha! Laughing

 

13.06.2007, 19:47 quote

Shyka
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 17 Location: Canada, Alberta, Red Deer
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Well atleast there wasn't some random creepo asking you about your armpit when you first got on! Not cool. Rolling Eyes

 
 
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