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29.10.2009, 13:04 quote

gj458

Ok, so whats confusing me a little is..Why would someone click Yes to wanting to meet you, but not attempt to contact ya? not that im complaining, it's just a head scratcher. lol

 

29.10.2009, 13:39 quote

70

I have those too, but I think it's a way that people want to show their interest in you without risking a 'knock back' So, wouldn't you want to message any of them if you liked the look of them and their profile?.... knowing they'd be interested in meeting can make it easier for both parties.... although you could view it as not liking the characteristic of someone who hasn't 'got the pluck' to be up front and message first.

 

29.10.2009, 14:39 quote

handsel
handsel Joined: 18 Mar 2009 Posts: 2355 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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You don't see a Want To Meet as an attempt to contact? Confused

Don't let them get away with it...
Send them a Want To Meet right back! Razz
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29.10.2009, 14:48 quote

70

handsel wrote:
You don't see a Want To Meet as an attempt to contact? Confused

Don't let them get away with it...
Send them a Want To Meet right back! Razz


Hey, yeah, why not?

 

29.10.2009, 15:49 quote

corazones2rotos

I find it very hard to believe that any girl wouldn't want to meet you. I'm very surprised that your "do you want to meet me" Yes button isn't on fire. So I agree with Handsel and Mirrorpool as it is just probably their attempt at contact. I would say take a chance and message them but I'm sure that it wouldn't take much on your part to get them to message back. Good Luck!!! Very Happy

 

29.10.2009, 18:56 quote

jeggae
jeggae Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 2174 Location: United Kingdom, England, Bedfordshire
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gj458 wrote:
Ok, so whats confusing me a little is..Why would someone click Yes to wanting to meet you, but not attempt to contact ya? not that im complaining, it's just a head scratcher. lol


I'll know better when someone clicks on me

 

29.10.2009, 20:23 quote

suedehed

I never looked at this function but I checked it tonight and two women have clicked yes on me which is quite surprising. Perhaps I missed out on other yes women by not checking previous profiles Laughing

 

29.10.2009, 23:13 quote

gj458

corazones2rotos wrote:
I find it very hard to believe that any girl wouldn't want to meet you. I'm very surprised that your "do you want to meet me" Yes button isn't on fire. So I agree with Handsel and Mirrorpool as it is just probably their attempt at contact. I would say take a chance and message them but I'm sure that it wouldn't take much on your part to get them to message back. Good Luck!!! Very Happy


There's only 10 up there, i wouldnt say thats on fire.. though, im trying to decide whether im here just for the forums or whatnot right now :p

Handsel - You could look at it that way, but mirrorpool answered that already. I like a girl to be upfront with it all.. Also, i've sent a mail to someone saying hello etc, no mail back, just appears on the wanting to meet :s

Suedehed, you probably did.. should go and check and let us know

 

30.10.2009, 19:04 quote

skoundrelushu

Well lucky you! I've clocked just one. I understand why people do it, cos I've done it myself... lets not go there

 

31.10.2009, 09:58 quote

tryst46

skoundrelushu wrote:
Well lucky you! I've clocked just one. I understand why people do it, cos I've done it myself... lets not go there

I got just one as well. Maybe it's the same woman clicking on all the guys profiles just to make them feel better that they've actually got a single yes Smile

First time I've checked because I didn't know about it before and mine was from a while back. She's deleted her profile now so there's not much point in trying to contact her.

 

31.10.2009, 11:05 quote

70

I have 11 pages worth, but then ive been here forever, lol


Out of the 11 pages ive probably met 3 or 4 oveer the last 3 years, loads have never contacted me, im glad to say.

 

31.10.2009, 11:10 quote

eccles
Joined: 23 Jun 2006 Posts: 2201 Location: United Kingdom, England, Somerset
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Well i've got one! Not a spammer either Laughing
One in longer than LV's been here PMSL!

Surely theres a connection with the fabled WHOOOOOOSHing? Laughing
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31.10.2009, 17:03 quote

cagefighterlee

I've never had one, then again I haven't taken the time to fill out my profile.

 

31.10.2009, 17:30 quote

70

I've got 3 pages and met one of the people from them, but like LV I've been around for a while and had a previous identity that also had pages and I did meet a few of them.

 

31.10.2009, 17:50 quote

loopy25
Joined: 27 Oct 2009 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, England, Surrey
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Ive got one too although i have only just joined. I cant get how to do a search. Is it just by who logged in when or can you search by age/area etc???
many thanks
loopy

 
 
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