Recently started seeing a young lady who although is very confident with her body, has admitted that she isn't very confident with respect to sex due to some comments made by a past jerk of a boyfriend.
I am taking my time and being sensitive but wondered if you have any ideas as to how to help her ?
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ok.... well... foreplay and lots of it. let her lead at her own pace. she will do what she feels comfortable with at the time. plan a night of seduction. quiet room, lots of candles, bottle of wine, you, her and not much else. could be that she's just shy to try new things because of her past experiences. if so, a couple of glasses of wine can work wonders. make her feel a lil more flirty. give her a massage with some jasmine absolute oil. perfect for seduction. the scent. let things progress any way she wants them to. if you get one night where she lets herself go.... she may find out there is nothing to be shy or self conscious about.

Along with all these great ideas from the people already, treat her with respect, this is the time to show her your understanding and caring side when it starts to get romantic............good luck to the two of you for the future, your so lucky to have someone to love keep that in your head and you'll be fine

Total respect with what you are doing about taking your time and being sensitive. How about leaving the sexual side of things aside for a few weeks and spending time going out doing the things that you both really enjoy?Getting closer, and building trust together goes a long way. I would then defer to almostpurfect. James.

our sweet paul, you have always had the right words and seems like you are doing the right thing still, just be patient, treat her right, just always be tender in all aspects and let her help making the moves.
still luv ya take care and good luck with your new lady

when i met my last girlfreind we didnt have sex for over month, she was very insecure about her body, when we had sex first it was sloppy and rushed but it grew and grew and became amazing, the thing with sex it gets better every single time , i loved her body and complimented here about it all the time and she became happy with the way she looked .

time and patiance is the key when u get there u will be so happy.

Thankyou folks.... one and all..... it is difficult and not what i am used too, but she is worth it...... patience is a virtue they say !!!!

Hope everyone is O.K. and enjoying what life throws at them....... hopefully some studs underwear Aluria ?
xx
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