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10.03.2009, 22:18 quote

justmejim70

annmarie5988 wrote:
xxxgemziexxx wrote:
I heard once on the tv that the best way to get over someone is to get udner someone else lol


not sure if it works tho Laughing


nope i would agree Gem .................. its what we like to call a distraction ......... Razz



stop corrupting the girl !

 

11.03.2009, 17:40 quote

annmarie5988

justmejim70 wrote:
annmarie5988 wrote:
xxxgemziexxx wrote:
I heard once on the tv that the best way to get over someone is to get udner someone else lol


not sure if it works tho Laughing


nope i would agree Gem .................. its what we like to call a distraction ......... Razz



stop corrupting the girl !


I think you'll find that will be you Jimbo Smile

Oh and Gemma no it doesn't work Sad

 

11.03.2009, 19:06 quote

xxxgemziexxx
xxxgemziexxx Joined: 06 Feb 2006 Posts: 347 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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aawk that sucks Sad i was sure it would work Laughing
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Love n Stuff
Gem
x x x x x x

 

12.03.2009, 20:09 quote

none12345
Joined: 07 Mar 2009 Posts: 10 Location: Canada, Ontario, Woodbridge
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yah i know what you mean and how it feels because when i broke up with my ex its really hard with all the heartache and picturing yourself with that person and all but you gotta just move on and make a decision for yourself not for anyone else. if you just think about it you deserve better than the person that dumped you. wait what are you talking about when someone passed away? if that than all you can try to do is move on. i find talking to close friends who can really understand how you feel helps temporary but it at the end you gotta be strong i dont know its hard to explain im going through this myself too anyways hope that helped

 

23.03.2009, 08:59 quote

anejo

mariner1 wrote:
Hello Dragon,
I am afraid I have found the best healer is time. Nothing can replace it, and though various things can help a little, the final hurt will become less only over time..........
You are not alone.
Roy


Hey Dragon.

I have to agree with the above. Time really is the only thing that heals wounds. I have lost someone to death and to own choice. The later was harder!
As to making new friend. Go out, find something you like doing, join a club, but don't sit and wonder how to change things. Go out and change them. Even if you feel like not getting up, force yourself, soon you will be shocked (and relived) to hear yourself laughing again.

 

03.06.2009, 21:51 quote

deetee25

Join a gym or some sort of club and keep busy get a new phone number and make sure you ex's number doesn't end up back in your phone book then you'll be sorted....

 

07.06.2009, 15:11 quote

gj458

xxxgemziexxx wrote:
annmarie5988 wrote:
xxxgemziexxx wrote:
I heard once on the tv that the best way to get over someone is to get udner someone else lol


not sure if it works tho Laughing


nope i would agree Gem .................. its what we like to call a distraction ......... Razz



have u tried it? did it work? Laughing


naw, doesn't work. You'll still be thinking of that person after, and might even feel a sting of guilt because of it. I tried, found it hard to get.. well, hard. (this was 2 days after the split, though.)

 

30.07.2009, 14:08 quote

beachbuggy
Joined: 28 Jul 2009 Posts: 16 Location: United Kingdom, England, Worcestershire
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Hi..
I have been through both and it is time ..!!

I lost my brother of brain cancer , and my mum had cancer at the same time , while this was going on , my X was trying to make me homeless with my children ..

This happened also and ended up almost going off my head , locked myself away did not want to see anyone ..!! Does not matter who would have been there ..I did not want them , the sadness was to great inside ..

Felt alone , and sad , my world had fallen..As it was said , time is in it self a healer and most of these things can only be over come by yourself and time ..!

Addvise from people is fab and to be truley onist it has helped myself by reading other peoples experiances ...

Love
Pendragon

 

30.07.2009, 20:59 quote

tzazo
Joined: 21 Feb 2008 Posts: 290 Location: United Kingdom, England, Dorset
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So now I ask how do make a friend and know they wont drop you?


What a question!

A true friend would'nt leave you in doubt over whether they could be relied uppon or not.

My sympathies for your loss.

 
 
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