Ok so I'm asking how can one get over things?
Like when a guy dumps you. How do you get over that?

My question is: How do I get over things that happend in the past? and how do I over from losing someone that passed away?

I wouldn't say you'll "never" get over it, i lost my dad to cancer last august.

There is hope, and there is light at the end, just stay strong. It seems like sheer hell, i know, but the best thing to do is do your hobbies, stay close to your friends, because without a doubt... good friends will help so so much!

Something i really must stress though, try not to spend too much time sitting around doing nothing, stay occupied. If you sit there and let your mind start spinning, it'll really drag you down, and it's a very dark place that it takes you to.

I promise, it will get better, me personally, girlfriend of 2 years finished me for someone else the week after my dad's funeral... and that angered me so much, i spent alot of time thinking "i wasnt there for his last night.." and all this negative stuff...

But soon it turns into "i'm proud to have him as my dad, and i'll climb the ladder he left behind for me" Look back and smile

Sorry about the essay lol

You know you say all these things and sure it will end in a happy ending. But losing a father and someone really special it break one's world down.
And sure I want my friends there for me like I'm always there for them but not one of them was there for me.
So now I ask how do make a friend and know they wont drop you?

The sweetest roses grow from the ripest manure.

Have you ever heard of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming)? I know lots of people who have used it in depth, or just experimented with various aspects and it seemed to work really well for them. It is really easy to do, anyone who has the ability to close their eyes and recall / imagine scenarios will be able to benefit from it.

I can't even pronounce Neuro Linguistic Programming.

Hello Dragon,
I am afraid I have found the best healer is time. Nothing can replace it, and though various things can help a little, the final hurt will become less only over time. I am very sorry your friends were not there for you when you needed them. They would have been a great support. May I suggest that then perhaps they were not real friends. You dont need many, but you do need them. I do anyway.

As others have said, keep active. Life goes on. There are others out there who you can relate to and I am sure would like to know you too. Let them.
Hang in there baby!! You are not alone.
Roy

I heard once on the tv that the best way to get over someone is to get udner someone else lol


not sure if it works tho
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hey you?!

I am not really sure - but I think one has to differenciate between loosing someone who had passed away or loosing someone like a guy leaving you.
I dont want to say one is worst than the other - that is not the case. Each kind of loss is horrible - just the ways to get over are quite diffrent I presume.

When someone lefts me my personal self-doubt for instance is on the rise mixed up with sadness and all that stuff... just horrible...

If someone passes away there is the mere sadness.

i think i posted this in the wrong thread!! whoopsies
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